<![CDATA[F*ck Your High Vibes]]>
nicwithlove.substack.com]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/s/fyhv-the-podcastSubstackSun, 31 May 2026 09:42:57 GMThttps://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/8063190/s/386461.rssNicole LoveHere, we bring it back to what’s real: your emotions, your patterns, your relationships, and your lived experience.episodicNicole Lovenicwithlove@substack.comYes<![CDATA[The Pause Before Summer • Episode 54]]>Summer is approaching, the energy is intensifying, and the world feels louder than ever. This episode is an invitation to slow down, reflect on the transition from spring into summer, and reconnect with yourself before the noise of the season fully arrives. FYHV Summer School officially begins June 27th with new episodes dropping Saturdays at 11:11 AM EST throughout the summer. Learn how to stay connected to yourself while the world gets louder.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/the-pause-before-summer-episode-54substack:post:199809335Sat, 30 May 2026 15:11:00 GMTNicole LoveYes2355274full<![CDATA[The Shift Happens In The Pause • Episode 53]]>In this Love Chat episode, Nicole Love explores the space between trigger and reaction and how chronic chaos conditions the nervous system to live in urgency, overstimulation, and emotional reactivity. This episode unpacks survival-based responses, conscious awareness, and why calm can feel uncomfortable when chaos has become the baseline. Together we talk about pause, discernment, nervous system recalibration, and learning how not to continue the emotional momentum unconsciously. Because the shift doesn’t happen in the chaos, it happens in the moment you choose not to continue it.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/the-shift-happens-in-the-pause-episodesubstack:post:198981180Sat, 23 May 2026 17:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo2809<![CDATA[Surviving the Frequency of Chaos • Episode 52]]>In this Cutting Through the BS episode, we unpack how chronic chaos, overstimulation, emotional activation, and survival mode quietly begin rewiring your nervous system, perception, and frequency. This truth session explores how chaos becomes a setpoint the body adapts to over time, impacting emotional regulation, intuition, relationships, creativity, and the way we interpret reality itself. We also cut through the performative “high vibes only” narrative to talk about the difference between real discernment and becoming emotionally consumed by the chaos around you.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/surviving-the-frequency-of-chaossubstack:post:197987813Sat, 16 May 2026 15:11:00 GMTNicole LoveYes3481522full<![CDATA[You Think This Is Just Life… It’s Not • Episode 51]]>In this episode, we take a deeper look at what a chaos setpoint actually is and how it quietly becomes the baseline your system learns to function within. This conversation explores the mental, emotional, and behavioral patterns that can keep you stuck in cycles of overthinking, reacting, fixing, and constantly feeling activated, even when nothing is technically wrong. I also share a vulnerable real-time moment of catching myself slipping into a chaos setpoint, highlighting how subtle and normalized these patterns can become. Because if you don’t recognize the setpoint, you may mistake survival mode for just “how life is".



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/you-think-this-is-just-life-its-not-0bc9a47b3db-7535-4fb7-a21d-d2a31bff3418Sat, 09 May 2026 15:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo2529<![CDATA[Something Feels Off…Because It Is • Episode 50]]>In this episode, we pause for a real-time vibe check using an intuitive card pull to reflect on what we’ve just experienced. What came through clearly is this: we’re still operating from a chaos setpoint, not just externally, but in how we process and respond. This conversation invites honesty about your emotional reactions, the patterns being revealed, and where you may still be participating in the chaos. Because awareness alone isn’t the shift, what you do with it is.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/something-feels-offbecause-it-is-b6a059af653-8153-449e-a98f-2eb20d93a9a5Sat, 02 May 2026 15:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo2650<![CDATA[This Is Hard To Admit… But I Caused Harm: The Truth About Self-Hate • Episode 49]]>In this Season 2 opener of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole shares a moment she had to face the truth - she caused harm. This episode explores the deeper reality that self-hate doesn’t stay internal; it spills onto others in ways we don’t always want to admit. Through real reflection and accountability, you’re invited to look at a time you hurt someone and uncover what within you was out of balance. This is about taking responsibility without shame and learning how to rebalance what’s been neglected. Because healing isn’t what you say, it’s how you show up.



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This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/the-bullsht-with-your-nervous-system-8a317bf1999-2348-46bf-a798-388f53bc405eSat, 18 Apr 2026 15:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo3030<![CDATA[Are You Healing or Just Looping? Breaking the Stress Loop • Episode 47]]>In this episode of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole Love breaks down the stress loop in healing culture , where you’re constantly processing, releasing, and chasing the next breakthrough without real resolution. This conversation challenges the idea that more healing always equals growth and calls out how the cycle can keep you stuck in activation. Because sometimes it’s not healing… it’s looping. And real growth often looks like less doing, more stability, and actual integration.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/are-you-healing-or-just-looping-breaking-4387382ccf6-55f6-4c8f-a8d9-40aabf964d4eSat, 21 Mar 2026 16:12:00 GMTNicole LoveNo3166<![CDATA[Stillness vs Spiritual Hustle • Episode 46]]>In this episode of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole Love explores the tension between stillness and the constant pressure to do more in spirituality. This conversation invites you to question whether your practices are actually supporting your life or if they’ve quietly turned into another way of staying busy. Because sometimes growth doesn’t come from adding another ritual. Sometimes the real practice is allowing stillness.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/stillness-vs-spiritual-hustle-episode-25216c9cfad-d46e-4473-9c90-6f07ccb7741aSat, 14 Mar 2026 16:12:00 GMTNicole LoveNo2580<![CDATA[What If You Stopped Trying to Fix Yourself? • Episode 45]]>What if you stopped trying to fix yourself? In this episode of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole Love cuts through the bullsh*t of the self-help and spiritual growth industry to explore our attachment to constant healing, personal development, and “doing the work.” When the rituals, modalities, and practices fall away, one question remains: Who are you without the fix?



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/what-if-you-stopped-trying-to-fix-54eaecc7c92-d6a7-44d4-95f1-0c52268cf8b3Sat, 07 Mar 2026 16:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo3023<![CDATA[Fire Horse Activation Gives A Shock To The Heart: Your Monthly Vibe Check • Episode 44]]>If this month felt heavy, tangled, or confronting, this grounded tarot-style energy forecast helps you release what’s done and move forward with clarity, forgiveness, and intention. In this monthly energy reading + vibe check, we pull cards to uncover the dominant emotional pattern, what kept repeating, and why it hit the way it did. This isn’t about prediction. It’s about pattern recognition, emotional awareness, and spiritual discernment.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/fire-horse-activation-gives-a-shock-b77766f845f-3f96-493e-acb0-3cd043e43865Sat, 28 Feb 2026 17:12:00 GMTNicole LoveNo1510<![CDATA[Yes, Romanticizing Your Life Is A Trauma Response • Episode 43]]>In this episode of Cut Through the BS, Nicole unpacks the nervous system dynamics behind aesthetic routines, soft living culture, and performative healing. If you’ve confused alignment with aesthetics, calm with safety, or gratitude with bypassing grief, this conversation brings you back to embodiment, emotional honesty, and real nervous system regulation, towards greater love of life.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/yes-romanticizing-your-life-is-a-eee75b0b21d-73f4-4d48-a092-778259805f1aSat, 21 Feb 2026 16:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo2390<![CDATA[Unresolved Pain Quietly Shapes The Way We Love • Episode 42]]>Heartbreak doesn’t always look like grief. Sometimes it looks like independence, guardedness, high standards, or emotional distance. In this episode of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole breaks down what happens when heartbreak isn’t finished, how the nervous system adapts, how protection becomes personality, and how unresolved pain quietly shapes the way we love, withdraw, and relate.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/unresolved-pain-quietly-shapes-the-51781af8f68-d626-4e0d-8714-0129241d26faSat, 14 Feb 2026 16:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo2196<![CDATA[Your Body Breaks Before Your Heart Does • Episode 41]]>Heartbreak doesn’t just hurt emotionally, it hits the body first. In this episode of F*ck Your High Vibes, Nicole breaks down what’s actually happening in your nervous system during heartbreak: why your chest tightens, your mind loops, and “just moving on” feels impossible. This isn’t about fixing your feelings or forcing a lesson, it’s about understanding emotional loss as a safety response and what truly supports healing when your body needs regulation, not pressure.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/your-body-breaks-before-your-heart-6920ef74549-b976-48d7-872e-955e64cb86cfSat, 07 Feb 2026 16:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo3025<![CDATA[Beneath The Noise Something Is Shifting• Episode 40]]>Nicole guides you through reconnecting with the wisdom beyond the mind, helping you stop overthinking, stop forcing clarity, and access the inner authority already held within you, without hype or pressure. This episode includes a January energy reading, breaking down the energetic shifts beneath the noise, why distractions pull at your focus, and how the mind processes change when the new shows up.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/beneath-the-noise-something-is-shifting-e4585e8839f-7918-4337-8d8d-92e901ed93deSat, 31 Jan 2026 16:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo1651<![CDATA[This Is For You Who Has Already Given Up On Their New Year’s Resolutions • Episode 39]]>This episode launches the Cutting Through the BS series by breaking down why New Year’s resolutions fall apart, how motivation gets mistaken for readiness, and why giving up early is often a sign the system wasn’t built for real life. Nicole cuts through resolution culture to help you stop internalizing failure, stop restarting from scratch, and build change that actually fits your life, without hype or pressure.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/this-is-for-you-who-has-already-given-9d51129f8e6-0c9a-45fd-926d-e4c59a09840eSat, 24 Jan 2026 16:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo2863<![CDATA[Comfort For These Loud & Chaotic Times - Come Back Home to You • Episode 38]]>The world is loud and chaotic, and this episode isn’t about escaping it. It’s about coming back home to yourself inside it. Nicole explores why waiting for calm is a trap, how joy and presence still exist in uncertain times, and what it means to reconnect without bypassing reality or forcing positivity. This is an invitation to stop outsourcing your permission to live and remember that meeting yourself again requires honesty, choice, and presence, not perfect timing.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/comfort-for-these-loud-and-chaotic-908a4825cd6-6f6d-4b98-b757-826b00ce7f5eSat, 17 Jan 2026 16:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo2925<![CDATA[Your Energy, Your Year: 2026 Blueprint • Episode 37]]>This episode breaks down your personal year in numerology, how it interacts with the global reset, and why you may be feeling changes you can’t quite name. Nicole gives you hands-on clarity, accountability, and tools to step into the year with intention, so you stop guessing, stop repeating old patterns, and actually walk your energy. 2026 is here, and your energy is already shifting.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/your-energy-your-year-2026-blueprint-5bc02ee4314-67c8-43a7-ad07-4164b3e556d4Sat, 10 Jan 2026 16:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo3297<![CDATA[Discernment Is the Assignment: Welcome to 2026 • Episode 36]]>2026 isn’t easing us in, it’s calling us up. In this episode, Nicole breaks down why discernment is the defining skill of a Universal Year 1, how the Fool’s Journey mirrors the collective leap humanity is being asked to take, and why clarity, not comfort, sets the tone for the next nine years. This is a real-time initiation into conscious choice, energetic responsibility, and learning how to tell the difference between intuition and trauma, alignment and avoidance, truth and illusion.



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This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/unlearning-the-fckery-of-2025-your-f593dfd64bf-3f7c-4240-9dc7-5319fc399d0aSat, 27 Dec 2025 16:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo2587<![CDATA[Not Everyone Gets to Hold Your Trauma • Episode 34]]>Trauma-informed care is being tossed around like a buzzword, but most people don’t really get it, and that can hurt you. In this episode, we break down the real meaning, red flags, and nervous system truths behind trauma-informed practice. Learn why discernment is self-love and how to protect your energy, story, and healing in a culture that often confuses trend with truth.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/not-everyone-gets-to-hold-your-trauma-6af65a33e8e-678e-41aa-a60c-b83603fd2587Sat, 20 Dec 2025 16:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo3451<![CDATA[The Spiritual Warfare Humanity Made (And YOUR Role in It) • Episode 33]]>The world feels chaotic, but the real battle is inside your own mind. I break down Emmet Fox’s concept of mental war, show how it shows up in your life, and unveil the four warriors answering the call. Which one is awakening within you? Only you can decide.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/the-spiritual-warfare-humanity-made-de40175b6c2-1220-4585-b0f7-95fe5ec0a8d4Sat, 13 Dec 2025 16:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo2829<![CDATA[The Part of Healing No One Warns You About • Episode #32]]>Healing is sold like a glow-up, but the truth is: it gets messier, louder, and more uncomfortable before anything actually shifts. In this episode, Nicole shares a raw story of having a night terror because her body finally felt safe enough to release what it had been holding. If you’ve ever wondered why things feel harder the moment you start healing, this conversation breaks down the biology, the backlash, and the real path toward safety that no one talks about.



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This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/for-those-on-some-bullshit-22-summer-64702baa617-5b86-42eb-bd52-3f08ae0b1698Sat, 23 Aug 2025 15:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo366<![CDATA[Why Manifestation Ain't Sh*it #21 (Summer Break Edition)]]>In this quick hit, we break down a hard truth most folks skip when it comes to the "secret" of manifestation. No fluff, just facts. Let’s get into it.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/why-manifestation-aint-shit-21-summer-e0bdb493783-6a80-4d40-90c8-97c4f6732f70Sat, 16 Aug 2025 15:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo314<![CDATA[The Art Of Shedding From A Season Of WTF's #20 (Summer Break Edition)]]>Let go of what summer made you carry. Let go of the pressure. Let go of the noise. Let go of whatever’s been weighing on you since June. This season is closing. Do it with intention—not exhaustion.



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This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/permission-to-be-a-fcking-mess-19-3a7fd0b9c8d-98c9-48df-9ead-f503bbb5bde6Sat, 02 Aug 2025 15:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo358<![CDATA[You’re Not A Damn Self-Help Project, Babe #18 (Summer Break Edition)]]>Somewhere along the way, healing became a checklist. This summer break edition is your permission slip to pause. To stop checking boxes. To stop fixing sh*t that was never broken.



This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe]]>https://nicwithlove.substack.com/p/youre-not-a-damn-self-help-project-791bc453825-063a-4aa7-9335-8d7de2b2cae8Sat, 26 Jul 2025 15:11:00 GMTNicole LoveNo439<![CDATA[All This “Good Vibes Only” Sh*t #17 (Summer Break Edition)]]>We’re cutting through the spiritual glitter to ask what’s underneath your need to stay light, bright, and unfazed. Feel it. Sit with it. Let that s**t surface. No affirmations required. Just truth, tension, and your full humanity.



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Less fixing.
More truth.
Let’s f*ck up the loop!



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If you’re ready to challenge everything you thought you knew about spirituality, buckle up—this is just the beginning. Hit subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and get ready to burn the bullsh*t.


F*ck the illusion. Embrace the truth. Let’s go.



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This is your wake-up call, your invitation, your permission to break out of the high-vibe prison and do the deep, messy, uncomfortable healing that actually transforms. If this trailer shakes you, good—now do something with it.


Full episodes dropping weekly on Saturday. F*ck the illusion. Embrace the truth. 🔥



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