<![CDATA[Annoying Grace]]>
annoyinggrace.substack.com]]>https://annoyinggrace.substack.com/podcastSubstackThu, 28 May 2026 03:35:42 GMThttps://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/5636503.rssMark RoedaReflections on God and marriage and learning forgiveness from a pastor married to a therapist who is going back to school. episodicMark Roedaannoyinggrace@substack.comNo<![CDATA[Let the Church Die]]>To be the church is to be the body of Christ. Like like the body of Christ in the gospel story, the church needs to undergo death and resurrection. I don’t pretend to know what resurrection might look like. But I do offer some suggestions for what it means to be the church in the meantime.



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Now, if you like things with abrupt shifts in tone, this is the episode for you.

The second part is my ploy to boost my subscriber total: a fan letter. Subscribe now so you can say that you were a fan before this podcast got huge and I sold out.



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If you appreciate the music for these episodes, keep it to yourself since none of it features my intermediate guitar playing. I acquired it from YouTube’s Audio Library. So thanks, YouTube.



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I don’t want prioritizing this to turn me into someone I don’t want to be around— like a Pam Bondi for the Almighty. And, thankfully, I don’t think it’s supposed to. In the end, I think it’s supposed to add richness and depth to life.



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For a far more thorough discussion of sexual assault in the culture of Imperial Rome, here’s the aforementioned episode: https://onscript.study/podcast/david-tombs-the-crucifixion-of-jesus-torture-sexual-abuse-and-the-scandal-of-the-cross/



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Also, I need a decent microphone. So the goal this week is two new paid subscribers or five new unpaid. And then I’ll make the plunge! Everybody wins!



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