aparalleluniverse.substack.com]]>https://aparalleluniverse.substack.com/podcastSubstackThu, 21 May 2026 12:59:14 GMThttps://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/5283940.rssSisse JensenJoin a fearless space for women over 40—where we get real about divorce, love, aging, motherhood, sex, and the wild hope of starting over. Served with humor, heart, and zero sugarcoating.episodicSisse Jensenaparalleluniverse@substack.comNoPopular fiction often blames “daddy issues” for women’s struggles with love and maintaining healthy relationships. And how often do the strippers in movies come from a background with an absent father? Well, my daddy loved me—and he was an amazing man—so he’s not to blame for my bad luck in love. For that reason, I want to tell you the story of a man who (almost) cured leprosy, traveled the Silk Road, and once helped the sheriff of Singapore solve crimes.

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