Unreasonably Grateful

Let Others Give

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 01 Mar 2026 14:30:00 GMT

As I continue to walk through life with my sister, I am aware of how many opportunities she faces that we all face, maybe just not as obvious. While no one knows when our life may come to an end, we often live as if tomorrow is a given rather than a gift. Listen in for some insights her diagnosis is offering us all.

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Commitment Matters

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 22 Feb 2026 14:30:00 GMT

How often do you and I live in indecision? We don’t always look at it this way, but honestly, whatever we are doing, thinking, or saying is actually the result of some choice we have made, and yet when facing the BIG questions in life, there is a cost to indecision. Think about it as you listen in this week.

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Facing The Unknown

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 15 Feb 2026 14:30:00 GMT

Have you ever realized how many little choices we make each day that shape our future? How about the fact that our future is truly unknown, yet we often live with a degree of certainty. As I walk through my sister’s diagnosis with her, I feel her courage as she truly faces the unknown and has to make choices. Listen in and see what applies to your life and embrace the opportunity to learn without the diagnosis.

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Love Heroically

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 08 Feb 2026 14:30:00 GMT

What if we are all, no matter our challenges or accomplishments, in the same school of loving and being loved? What if daily, even momentarily, we are invited to love or be loved more deeply, more completely? How are we all doing? Let’s look at this together this week.

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What Gifts Am I Missing?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 01 Feb 2026 14:30:00 GMT

Have you ever noticed that, no matter what happens, there is a hidden gift? What if we lived our lives finding and being present to the gifts, rather than whatever else is captivating our attention? Listen in, see what gifts you might be missing.

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What Do You Do When Bad Things Happen

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 25 Jan 2026 14:30:00 GMT

It’s true bad things do happen and while perhaps we live hoping they don’t happen to us, they often do. So, what do we do when bad things happen. Let’s look at how to navigate tough times while still keeping your heart open.

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How Can You Tell When Something Is Complete

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 18 Jan 2026 14:30:00 GMT

I suspect we all know when something isn’t complete. We keep getting tripped up by it. It keeps arriving on the surface of our consciousness even when we aren’t intentionally thinking about it. It lives on repeat in our minds. You get the idea. Well in this episode lets ’s look at how you can tell when something is actually complete. Let’s look

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Begin, Again

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 11 Jan 2026 14:30:00 GMT

It was a VERY SLOW start to my new year. I came down with some nasty stomach bug and had one day where I thought I was recovering, and then plummeted to the depths of despair. This is day 9 of no food, now slowly adding liquids and beginning again. Like all events in life, this one was meaningful and full of lessons; it proved no exception. Listen in as I share more (from the depths). Happy New Year.

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Ending Well

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 04 Jan 2026 14:30:00 GMT

As a year comes to an end and we may all see it as a way to create closure and begin to step into something new, please consider that the same opportunity exists in every moment. We don’t always look at it that way, but it’s there. If you are someone who is walking through healing from addiction, you know the value of just one moment; the option is to make a choice that may dictate your future. Listen in for some insights into how we can all create endings well, this moment and the year as it comes to a close, setting ourselves up for a new, healthy beginning.

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The Gift Of Time

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 28 Dec 2025 14:30:00 GMT

One of the many beautiful things about the Christmas season is the gathering of family. While many movies bring up laughing moments of all that may occur when families get together, consider that those times are precious. Let’s look at the value of generational love and the gift of time, no matter what your family history may be

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Being Expectant Is Not The Same As Having Expectations

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 21 Dec 2025 14:30:00 GMT

One of the easiest ways to tap into what it is like to be expectant is to recall Christmas Eve as a child. Remember going to bed early so the morning would come more quickly? If your family didn’t celebrate Christmas, perhaps it was a birthday, or a summer vacation, something you looked forward to and couldn’t wait for to happen. Let’s look at the difference between having expectations and being expectant, the outcomes are very different.

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293 The Power of Water

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 14 Dec 2025 14:30:00 GMT

My life is feeling Biblical. My husband and I were remarking that we have survived being “ground zero” of a fire in California and now a flood in Idaho. Disasters always carry lessons with them. Listen in as we explore this one.

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An Invitation to Slow Down

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 07 Dec 2025 14:30:00 GMT

Have you ever read a great book and, as you get to the end, read more slowly, not wanting it to end? Well, that is my invitation to you this Christmas holiday season. It’s true another year is coming to an end and rather than get caught up in the rush as the last days of the year approach, I”m inviting you to S L O W down. Listen in to hear why?

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Twenty Two Years of Gratitude

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 30 Nov 2025 14:30:00 GMT

Those of us in the United States have just finished a day of feasting and giving thanks, so while we digest the bounty of food we ate, let’s look at how to keep the gratitude part of the holiday going. Listen in as I tie gratitude to the rebuilding of trust we talked about last week.

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Trust and Mistrust

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 23 Nov 2025 14:30:00 GMT

Thank you for being here; you matter.

In today’s episode, let’s look at trust and how, when, and who we trust. Most of us have experienced a break in trusting, perhaps someone else or ourselves, and the choices we have made. So, how do we rebuild and regain the inner and outer experience of trusting? Let’s explore this together. It is true that without trust, it is almost impossible to build anything. Let’s dive in. I am grateful you are here.

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Temptation, Conviction and Connectedness

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 16 Nov 2025 14:30:00 GMT

Welcome back, or if you are new, welcome

As we journey together, discovering more of who we are created to be, I am grateful to be sharing this journey with you. Thank you.

This episode comes from my own recent experiences as I continue to heal in what will soon be my 40th year of recovery. I can hardly believe it has been that long,\ and yet, here I am. I don’t know about you, but I imagine that no matter where you are in your personal healing, there is always more. Let’s take a look at how the title of this episode shows up in our lives and how they are connected.

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Is It Ever Really Over?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 09 Nov 2025 14:30:00 GMT

Welcome to November,

It's great to have you here.

Well, they say the MLB season is over, the World Series has ended, and once again the LA Dodgers are the winners. It was an excellent year for some good life lessons, AND in this episode, I’ll wrap up some of those lessons that were actually spoken from the mic as they wrapped up their season. Listen in if you find yourself ever wondering, what’s next.

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It Is Not Over Yet

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 02 Nov 2025 14:30:00 GMT

Hi There,

Welcome back, or welcome, whichever applies to you. I am grateful you are here. The journey we are on is designed to be shared, and this is one way you and I can share, so thank you. As the World Series moves on to Game 7 the life lessons continue to present themselves so let’s take a look at those together. Remember, growth is a moment-by-moment experience, and life offers endless opportunities to learn and grow if we stay present and don’t miss them. Buckle up, here we go.

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I Am Going To The World Series

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 26 Oct 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Hi there,

As every week, I am happy to have you join me, and I am happy to join you. Yes, it’s true, I really am going to the World Series! Just as every week there are lessons and opportunities for growth in the day-to-day experiences of life, and in this episode, let’s look at the value of having something to look forward to. Listen in

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Back To Nature (natural)

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 19 Oct 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Hey, welcome back!

As always, I am grateful you are here with me. Thank you.

In today's episode, let’s take a look at how we make healthy choices. Like most options in life, there are many things to consider, and in today’s world of instant information, we may feel overwhelmed with knowledge from a variety of sources as we choose for ourselves. Let’s take a look at this together.

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Pressure Is A Privilege

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 12 Oct 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Hi there —welcome back if you have been listening for a while, and welcome if you are new! For those of you who have been following me, you know I am an MLB fan, and in particular, a LA Dodgers fan. Hence, the Mookie Betts quote is the title for this episode. So, let’s look at that together and perhaps you will see a way to reframe the times when you feel as if your back is against the wall, or fear is creeping in, or even taking over. It’s your turn and time for you to perform, now what? Take a listen.

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You Are Ready When You Are Ready

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 05 Oct 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Most of my test results are in, and there is no conclusive outcome. While we wait for my heart monitor results, the best advice is to continue taking good care of myself. Health food, exercise, and rest. Nothing new. So as I begin to “re-enter” life as I knew it, I am still embracing the “new me” as I step out. Listen in as we start this journey together, for how it might apply to you on your journey

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Puppies, Rest & Reassurance

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 28 Sep 2025 13:30:00 GMT

It’s been a month since my accident, and it feels like a new life. When I went to my heart doctor for a follow-up, he mentioned that it must have been scary being in a potentially fatal accident. While I have had flashbacks of what could have been, hearing someone else say it made it more real. While there are ups and downs in life, let’s all continue to count our blessings. Listen in and count yours along with me.

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Real Freedom

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 21 Sep 2025 13:30:00 GMT

I am still learning more from the inside out, and the journey is amazing and healing. Last night I had a powerful dream I will do my best to put into words for you, while your circumstances may be different than mine, there is a lesson in it for all of us. Listen in.

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Wu Wei

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 14 Sep 2025 13:31:00 GMT

A dear friend came to visit, and as I shared with him my current experience since the accident, he said, “Oh, you are experiencing Wu Wei.” At first, I was confused as his sweet dog is named Wu Wei; however, he went on to explain that it is a Chinese expression for effortless action. Listen in as we explore what may take place when an old struggle falls away.

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Routine or Rut?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 07 Sep 2025 13:30:00 GMT

The healing continues, and I often find myself observing my own life. Just today I noticed new freedoms and I also feel some restrictions, can I just be with both? The title of this episode came to me when the puppies created a new morning routine, and I found myself adjusting to it, even enjoying the novelty of it. So let’s dive in together and explore whether any of our routines are becoming ruts.

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What Matters Most

Terces Engelhart — Mon, 01 Sep 2025 13:30:00 GMT

It has been a week since my accident. The totaled truck has been picked up, the insurance claim resolved, we have found a new truck, and this episode shares my emotional healing in the aftermath. I find myself reorganizing my organizing principles. I am not trying to get there; it is simply happening. Let’s ask ourselves together: what matters most?

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The Illusion of Control

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 24 Aug 2025 13:30:00 GMT

One advantage of using Substack for my podcast is that it is possible to have each episode be VERY current. While I usually listen to my inner world prior to recording, and often there is a whisper that leads me to a topic, this week, there was a loud scream! Thus, the title, The Illusion of Control, so if you are someone who thinks they are, or likes to be in control, listen in. I lost control this week, and I am still seeking the deeper lesson.

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Denial and Surprises

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 17 Aug 2025 13:30:00 GMT

For me, denial is a way to avoid something; if I don’t notice it, perhaps it will go away, which is the underlying reason for my denial. While that is rarely true (almost never) I admit that there are times when I secretly hope the outcome of my denial will lead to something good! I’m not recommending this way of navigating circumstances, but I will share with you how, sometimes, there is a pleasing surprise. Listen in for a light-hearted episode with tidbits of wisdom woven in.

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What Is Your Calling?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 10 Aug 2025 13:30:00 GMT

While our calling is often considered “Original Intent”, it isn’t written in stone. You can always create it now, newly. So relax, you can’t get this wrong. Keep asking yourself, “Why is this important to me?” Eventually, you will discover that it is who you are, not what you do, that matters. This is what I mean by original intent - you are made for this. Listen in as you take your next step.

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Living In Alignment

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 27 Jul 2025 13:30:00 GMT

This week I had the honor of working with someone who has embraced a new life in the past few years, now free from an addiction that consumed her for nearly thirty. That is exciting to me, just like being at a birth, there is such joy and hope when a new life enters this world. It feels similar to me when someone cleans up a past and embraces a wide-open future. In this episode, I will share the first steps in living an aligned life, moving towards who you are called to be, and taking the steps to fulfill that vision. It is never too late to begin!

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What Are People Left With?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 20 Jul 2025 13:00:00 GMT

I read on Facebook something the daughter of one of my cousins wrote when she heard of her father’s death. I listened to my daughter talk about all the help pulling out of Kerrville, Texas. My friends shared their thoughts about their mother’s struggles in recovery, and I kept feeling the impact we all have on the lives of one another and asking myself, what are the people in my life left with? We just never know when it will be the last time we see someone, or hug someone, or let someone know they matter. Listen in as we explore our impact and discover how we can ensure that those we care about feel loved.

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The Longevity of Friendship

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 13 Jul 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Recently, I reached out to a friend from High School, which would be 58 years ago. Now she didn’t have to respond, but she did. We reconnected as she was willing to be a reference for me, and there were things from my past to share with her. Take a moment to think about the kids you knew in high school. Who could you reach out to, knowing they’d be there for you? Listen in on how meaningful friendship is.

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The Healing Power Of Trusting

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 06 Jul 2025 13:30:00 GMT

We have all most likely experienced broken trust. We have all most likely been untrustworthy. So, how do we heal the abyss that forms in the absence of trust? What are we protecting ourselves against by not trusting? What lesson are we learning when we trust? This episode is multifaceted; listen in.

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Higher Power

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 29 Jun 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Description: I’ve heard it many times before, “Be careful what you ask for.” This wheel was full of adjustments. How was yours? A friend shared a great insight, another friend has a new potential relationship, and I fractured my wrist. Let’s talk about all of these! Thanks for listening in.

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Life Is Full Of Adjustments

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 22 Jun 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Description: Have you ever noticed how many adjustments are necessary to have your life and the life of those around you work better? Adjustments are required; wouldn’t it be great if we embraced them instead of resisting them? Listen in for some thoughts on how to do that.

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When The Going Gets Tough

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 15 Jun 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Description: Things don’t always go well. Challenges can sometimes overtake us, and difficulties arise that seem bigger than we are. In other words, when the going gets tough, how do you handle it? Listen in for some thoughts and insights on what the opportunity just might be.

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269 How And Why We Celebrate

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 08 Jun 2025 13:29:00 GMT

While last week we shared about celebrating another’s success, no matter what your current situation might be, this week let’s look at what actually moves us to celebrate, as well as how and why we do. Listen in.

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Celebrating Another's Success

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 01 Jun 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Description: It is that time of year when school is ending and kids are graduating. Perhaps you, too, are experiencing some graduation in your own process of refinement and growth, perhaps not. Either way, we all learn and benefit when we can get behind others and celebrate their achievements. Who can you encourage or celebrate this week? Listen in for some ways you can help others reach their goals, even if you're feeling stuck or stagnant in your progress.

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What Is Your Gift?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 25 May 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Have you ever thought about or wondered what your gifting is? Maybe you think you aren’t gifted. Well, no matter where you are, listen in for some thoughts on your special gifts, which you do have!

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269 What If You Just Say Thank You

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 18 May 2025 18:35:00 GMT

Description: We all get “triggered.” Our wounds or sensitive areas are activated, and we often react, mostly in defense or protection. But what if you just say Thank you? Listen for the opportunity to step into real change and awaken in the most sensitive areas of your life.

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You Will Be Tested (Final Part)

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 11 May 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Description: As each of us takes on a “new life” and continues to practice staying present, letting the multitude of distractions pass by, and embracing new behaviors that are aligned with who we truly are, we will be tested. Listen to the final part of this series as we consider what being tested might provide. There are so many lessons to learn from before we take our final exam. What if you pass?

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You Will Be Tested (Part Two)

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 04 May 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Description: As each of us takes on a “new life” and continues to practice staying present, letting the multitude of distractions pass by, and embracing new behaviors that are aligned with who we truly are, we will be tested. Listen to Part Two in this series as we consider what being tested might provide. Here is a link to a conversation about how we all are tested. This interview is about a Yankee baseball player, https://www.mlb.com/news/devin-williams-removed-as-yankees-closerThere. There are many lessons to learn from before we take our final exam.

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266 You Will Be Tested (Part One)

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 27 Apr 2025 13:30:00 GMT

As each of us takes on a “new life” and continues to practice staying present, letting the multitude of distractions pass by, and embracing new behaviors that are aligned with who we truly are, we will be tested. Listen in as we begin a series on what preparing and taking our test may look like. There are so many lessons to learn from before we take our final exam.

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New Life

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 20 Apr 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Description: Wow, what a week. I don’t remember ever celebrating the Paschal season in quite this way. I don’t know about you, but I have been following my podcast, taking on each week as I pray you have been. If so, I suspect we are all feeling many of the same emotions, disappointments, and losses. As we approach this Sunday, we are also presented with an opening. A new life is emerging in each of us. Listen in and let’s share in that joyous miracle together.

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264 A Break From Your Personality

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 13 Apr 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Description: You and I have been doing some deep work, leading to profound healing over the past few weeks. Today, let’s look at the space that perhaps you have created and what you may be discovering about yourself. I will share my process, hoping you see something for yourself in my story.

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Living Is Practicing

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 06 Apr 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Description: Over the past few weeks, we have been working on making a change—a long-lasting and healthy change that will actually shift all the areas of our lives. Today, let’s look together at how living into this new identity is all practice. You can choose to have your practice be inspiring and fun!

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How We Change (Part 3)

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 30 Mar 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Description: This week, let’s examine the core belief that perhaps led us to create the life we are living and what we might surrender or give up to begin forming a new belief that will fuel the discovery of who we actually are rather than the being we have created from our trauma, wounds, fears, etc. Who are you, really?

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262 How We Change (Part 2)

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 23 Mar 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Remember when you were a kid and your parents wanted you to hang out with the “good” kids? Consider the foundation of that: We are greatly impacted by our environment. Another way of saying that is we are the conversations we engage in. Listen to the second part of How We Change. It may be time to shift the conversations you are a part of.

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How We Change

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 16 Mar 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Description: Have you ever had the thought, “I can’t believe I just did that?” Or maybe “I can’t believe I just said that?” If so, listen in for thoughts on how to stop saying and doing things that aren’t an honest representation of who we are.

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Surrendering My Will

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 09 Mar 2025 13:30:00 GMT

Description: In this episode, let’s explore surrendering a bit more. Considering none of us like to surrender, why would we when we think we know what is best, or how something should be or go, why would I let go of that? However, what if there is something we are missing due to our “knowing”? Listen in and see what you hear.

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Terces Engelhart — Sun, 09 Feb 2025 14:30:00 GMT

Description:

While it occurs as if there is a divide in our country for some, for others, it appears as an incredible opportunity. What’s the difference? Listen in for a possible new view of our shared life.

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A Mid-Air Collision

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 02 Feb 2025 14:30:00 GMT

255 A Mid-Air Collision

Description:

Last night, as I got ready to go to sleep, the mid-air collision of a passenger plane with a military helicopter falling into the Potomac River happened. The search was still on as I fell asleep and then awoke to the news of no survivors. I find myself reflecting on, once again, another tragic loss.

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Empathy For The Loss, Celebration For The Win

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 26 Jan 2025 14:30:00 GMT

Description:

As the fires in Los Angeles are slowly being contained, people are gathering to help in any way they can. Some have lost everything, and others have been spared. Reconciling the losses and wins in life can be a decisive step in the healing process.

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The Gift Of Life

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 19 Jan 2025 14:00:00 GMT

253 The Gift Of Life

Description:

As we move into the New Year, let's embrace more of who we are committed to being and keep our attention on all we have to be grateful for. Let’s pray for those who are dealing with loss and ask ourselves, how can we help?

The Los Angeles fires are blazing, and friends are losing everything, so let’s reach out and contribute in any way we can.

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Take The First Step

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 12 Jan 2025 12:25:00 GMT

253 Take The First Step

Title: Take The First Step

Description:

When you or I make a commitment to change the first step we want to take is setting ourselves up to win. Listen In for some insights on just how to do that, no matter what your goal may be. Terces shares one the is currently working on and will guide you in taking that step for yourself.

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Change Is Challenging

Terces Engelhart — Tue, 07 Jan 2025 19:36:26 GMT

As we begin a New Year together, let’s look at how we keep what we are taking with us in place. How do we make the change that keeps us living up to our commitments? How do we, you and I, replace what we have been doing or saying with what we now want to be doing and saying? Listen in and Happy New Year to you.

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What Are You Leaving Behind and What Are You Taking With You?

Terces Engelhart — Tue, 07 Jan 2025 19:34:28 GMT

My husband and I always ask each other what we are leaving behind and what we are taking with us when we make any type of journey as we prepare to return home. It’s a fun and meaningful practice so in this episode let’s look at what you are leaving behind in 2024 and will be taking with you into 2025.

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Open My Heart To Receive

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 22 Dec 2024 06:00:00 GMT

Once you have called out for help and then asked for what you want, next comes opening your heart to receive. So that may well be the next ask, think about it, if your heart isn’t open how will you receive the help that comes? Listen in for being a more open hearted person

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Prayer & Recovery

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 15 Dec 2024 06:00:00 GMT

Have you ever thought about how prayer and recovery go together? Have you ever felt helpless and found yourself crying out for help? Who did you think was listening? Who were you calling out to? Twelve step programs start with admitting we are powerless and the Serenity prayer goes “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference”

Admitting there are things you cannot change, so listen in to hear how Terces connects these two.

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Getting Back On Track

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 08 Dec 2024 06:00:00 GMT

We can have the best intentions and still there will be days that seem great and we experience our healing and growth and then there will be days when it feels like an uphill battle and we are losing. That is actually great and listen in if you want to hear why and how you can celebrate what is really going on.

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Set Yourself Up To Win

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 01 Dec 2024 06:00:00 GMT

As we head into the Christmas/Holiday season it can be extra challenging to take care of yourself, especially if you deal with food or alcohol issues. Parties can feel so unsafe and you don’t want to be left out. Listen in if you are committed to celebrating the holidays in a healthy and meaningful way.

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Answer The Hardest Question First

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 24 Nov 2024 06:00:00 GMT

Do you ever feel confused, especially when dealing with change, or the need to make a choice? Consider that the confusion is a function of you moving too quickly and possibly avoiding answering the hardest question first. Listen in for some clarity that may guide you forward and clear up the confusion you are experiencing.

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What Do You Depend On?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 17 Nov 2024 06:00:00 GMT

It is good for all of us to step back sometimes from the ongoing activity of our lives and take a closer look at what we are depending on. It’s a good inquiry. Depending can certainly lead to dependence and that is what we are looking at this week. Remembering that real freedom is you can or you can’t, not you have to. Listen in for some guidance in making the inquiry for yourself.

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A Test Before You Speak

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 10 Nov 2024 06:00:00 GMT

I don’t know about you but it is so easy for words to seemingly jump out of my mouth before I have even had time to think about what I am about to say. I started challenging myself to take this test before speaking and I love the experience I am having. Take it on this week, listen in for what the test is!

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Walking Through A Crisis

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 03 Nov 2024 05:00:00 GMT

We all face a crisis from time to time, some are worse than others. I have heard my daughter say, “Life is hard”, and I realize she is responding to the challenges and difficult situations that people face, all of us.
This episode has us looking together at how we walk through a crisis, as I am aware of people facing big challenges and struggling in my own life. So listen in as we talk this through together.

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Play Full-Out

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 27 Oct 2024 05:00:00 GMT

While this episode is influenced by the baseball playoffs and my grandson's enthusiasm for the LA Dodgers, I encourage him not to give up when they are behind, reminding him the game isn’t over until it’s over.

How often do we talk ourselves out of a relationship, job, house, or opportunity? Feel free to listen in if you are interested in playing FULL OUT until the last moment of whatever challenge you might be facing.

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Acceptance is The Key

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 20 Oct 2024 05:00:00 GMT

The past couple of weeks have had me be ever more present to the importance of being able to accept what is. If you are struggling to accept someone, something, some situation your life listen in, you might just hear the key you are missing to gain more freedom

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Just One Person

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 13 Oct 2024 05:00:00 GMT

A long while ago I learned the lesson about showing up, even if it is only for one person. Have you ever wondered if your efforts were worth it, if the time and resources you used have been impactful or meaningful? If you have listened in, you may just hear something new that will make all the difference in how you go forward in your life.

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It’s Up To You

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 06 Oct 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Sometimes we don’t want to believe that it is up to us. We simply don’t want to take responsibility for whatever might be going on. Well, I am not saying what is going on is up to us, however, I am saying that HOW WE EXPERIENCE what is going on is up to us! Listen in for perhaps some newfound freedom

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Notice What Is Working

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 29 Sep 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Unfortunately as human beings our attention often goes to what’s wrong, what isn’t working, what’s missing, you get the idea, the bad or unfortunate news seems to take precedence. In this episode Terces shares about keeping our attention, or noticing what IS working as a practice in all areas of life, especially our relationships. Listen is for some support in doing just that!

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Celebrate Someone Else’s Love

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 22 Sep 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Have you ever felt as if you are missing out on love? It might look like others seem to experience love so easily, or you are simply lonely and maybe single. Or. you just haven’t found the right person yet. There are many situations where we may find ourselves feeling somehow left out of the love equation, if so, listen in, you may hear something that gives you some freedom.

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A Spiritual Context For Your Relationship

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 15 Sep 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Recently I was coaching a couple on their relationship and once again became aware of how without a spiritual context for our relationships how difficult, even hopeless it is. So listen in if you want to shift your intention to a spiritual one, or renew the one you are currently living into.

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My 29th Year of Recovering

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 08 Sep 2024 05:00:00 GMT

When this episode is released it will be one day past my 74th Birthday and my 29th year of recovering. There was a time when I couldn’t have imagined this day and yet, here it is.

We have good friends visiting us and tonight as I got ready to record this episode they asked me what my podcast was all about, I shared that it is snipers of the wisdom that I have received in my 29 years of recovery. These tidbits that I can easily share in under 10 minutes are stepping stones anyone can use to take them further down their path to discovering who they are and why they are here.

One of my dear friends in Ciela and you can find her and what she offers at
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Listen in to the snippet that rose to the surface today and see if it isn’t useful as you take your next step.

Thank you for being here.

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It’s All Maintenance

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 01 Sep 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Someone asked me recently about how to maintain a healthier lifestyle. I had to giggle as I consider it is all maintenance. Think about it, if you do something well, if you make a healthy change in your life, if you buy a new car or a new home, or even if you simply clean your house then what, see what I mean, it’s all maintenance. So listen in if you want some insights on what that might look like.

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We Create Our Relationships

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 25 Aug 2024 05:00:00 GMT

People often say one of the most important choices you will ever make is selecting your partner/wife/husband. I get it, however consider that if we create our relationships than what matters most is you choose someone who is up for just that, being responsible for creating a great relationship/marriage. It’s work for sure and some of the most rewarding work you will ever do. So it isn’t so much about who that person is as it is about who you both are committed to becoming. Listen in for some insights into perhaps a paradigm shift in relationships

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Do Messes Really Matter

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 18 Aug 2024 05:00:00 GMT

This episode is for those of us who thrive on order. You like things put back where they belong, your blood pressure drops when there is a sense of order in your home, you clean up as you go, you get the idea.

Now, I am not saying that those of us who can leave clothes and towels on the floor and can never find a clean glass won’t hear something for themselves or perhaps for those around them that do most of the picking cup, so listen in for a perspective that might ease your stereo and allow you to relax no matter what condition your room house, car or workplace is.

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Time With Family

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 11 Aug 2024 05:00:00 GMT

As one ages I suspect our relationship to time changes, mine has. While I used to feel like there wasn’t enough time in the day to get everything done, I now feel as if time to do nothing except “be”, especially with family and loved ones is what matters most. Listen if you are looking for more time to be with loved ones in your life you may hear something that inspires and encourages you. Thanks for listening.

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It’s In God’s Hands

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 04 Aug 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Most of us try to figure things out. That we explain away whatever might be happening, or has happened. However, what if it’s in God’s hands and all of our explanations, defenses, justifications, etc are just figments of our imagination? It/life is unfolding perfectly according to God’s plan. How do we set ourselves up to be a part of such a grand plan as His? Listen in for some ideas.

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Trusting Your Process, Trusting Their Process

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 28 Jul 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Have you ever struggled to trust that you are on the right path, that your life is unfolding just as it should be, that you are in process and the final. Product isn’t finished yet? How about doing the same for someone else’s process, especially when it impacts yours? Listen in for some new insights.

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Regaining Trust (in Yourself and Others)

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 21 Jul 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Broken trust is painful and often frightening. How do we begin to regain trust both in ourselves and in others. Listen in and see if something doesn’t click to give you the courage to trust again.

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Is Your Past In Your Future?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 14 Jul 2024 05:00:00 GMT

It is easy to live life with our past dictating what is possible and impossible based on our past. However, what if you were completely free of your past and your future was wide open, like a blank slate, on which you could create newly. Then what? Listen in to see what might be possible for all of us.
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Listening Is The Highest Form of Loving

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 07 Jul 2024 05:00:00 GMT

And the rest of the title is and we almost NEVER listen. Think about it. How good at listening are you? How often are you thinking of what you are going to say, or how you agree or disagree with what is being shared. I suspect that the times in our lives that we were really listening to someone are few and far between. What if you were a better listener, what if the people in your life experienced being heard when they talked with you, what difference would that make? Listen in, really listen, see what you hear.

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When Love Says No

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 30 Jun 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Do you think of love as a gushy, kind, soft energy? Do you think of it as a “yes” response? If so, listen in as sometimes love says No.

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Gifts and Curses

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 23 Jun 2024 05:00:00 GMT

There but by the grace of God go I. You have probably heard this before, I certainly have. I was talking to a Psychiatrist who worked in a prison who said it to me a while back and I remember listening and thinking, how true this is. In this episode let’s look at how our gifts could easily be curses and we get to choose which side of that two-edged sword becomes our life.

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Lucy Is Pregnant

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 16 Jun 2024 05:00:00 GMT

My Labrador dog is having puppies in just a couple weeks or so. I am noticing, as I walk through her pregnancy with her, how similar the process is to the healing journey. Listen in for tips and tools as she approaches giving birth.

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The Way Out

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 09 Jun 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Today I want to share with you a book written near the end of his life, by Richard Condon. Richard had sat in front of thousands of people supporting them in living their best life over many years. He was a pivotal part of our restaurant's mission and a dear friend. I believe there is great wisdom in the lives of those close to crossing over and am sharing this book based on that belief. Listen in and share this episode with anyone you love and care for. I recommend that you relate to this as his “final words” a gift to us all.

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I Didn’t Sign Up For This Lesson

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 02 Jun 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Have you ever noticed that some lessons seem to come through our connections to other people? Have you ever thought to yourself, “I didn’t sign up for this”? If so, listen in and you may hear something that will help you settle into the "class" you are apparently in or will be soon. If you know someone who could use prayer, and we all do, share this episode and or introduce them to the podcast. Remember an invitation says, who you are is love and you are here to serve. I want to remind you that I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect back on how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website, tercesengelhart.com

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Insights On Prayer

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 26 May 2024 19:27:00 GMT

This episode looks deeper into the power of prayer and how we choose our words. Terces shares from a recent personal experience

If you know someone who could use prayer, and we all do, share this episode and or introduce them to the podcast. Remember an invitation says, who you are is love and you are here to serve.

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A Powerful Prayer

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 19 May 2024 18:44:00 GMT

In this episode, Terces shares a prayer she memorized years ago that still comes up when she feels stuck. If you ever feel stagnant or stuck listen in. There are insights to becoming freed up and moving forward in your life.

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The Value Of Rest

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 12 May 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Do you push yourself? It may be getting just one more thing done, or staying up later than you know works best for you, or not eating and still go go going, perhaps its habitual speeding, or consuming too much caffeine or power beverages, you name it.

There are many ways you and I may be PUSHING ourselves, stretching our limits, and all too often not resting enough. In this episode we take a look at the value of a good rest and how you might set yourself up for getting a good and enough rest.

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Better Than You Think

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 05 May 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Have you ever thought that you are actually living below what is possible? That is how good it is, and yes, let’s always be grateful for that, there is something better than you think possible.

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The Silver Lining

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 28 Apr 2024 05:00:00 GMT

The past couple of episodes Terces has shared about an upcoming surgery and all the emotions that she has felt along the way. In this episode she is fresh out of recovery and on the other side with much to share about her experience and what she believes is available for all of us as we walk directly into our fears and surrender to trusting the process. Listen in and let yourself be inspired.

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Fear and Trust

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 21 Apr 2024 05:00:00 GMT

In this episode let’s look at how fear usually takes hold in the absence of trusting. Fear lives in some future unless you are presently in danger. For most of us, it is the result of looking ahead of ourselves and imagining some undesirable outcome.

Let’s look at how trusting gives us some freedom in the face of fear.

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Follow Up On Quitting (and a tidbit on prayer)

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 14 Apr 2024 05:00:00 GMT

I am following up on last week's episode to see if you discovered what I discovered when you answered the questions I posed last week. Also a response to a comment on the power of prayer, just in case you are praying.

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There Is No Such Thing As Quitting

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 07 Apr 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Have you ever felt like you wanted to quit? Let’s look at the feeling and see what there is to learn from. Consider there is no such thing, Listen in.

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I Am Humbled

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 31 Mar 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Last episode we talked about admitting defeat and I want to continue this week into the humility that comes along with our admission and then what is possible.

Listen in and see what you may learn about yourself on your journey. Thank you for being here.

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Admitting Defeat

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 24 Mar 2024 05:00:00 GMT

I am not sure about you but I definitely resist admitting defeat. However, I suspect there will come a time in all of our lives when we are defeated and all that stands in between us beginning anew is our admission. Let’s look at this together.

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Attachments Cause Suffering, How Do We Let Go?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 17 Mar 2024 05:00:00 GMT

We all have attachments, they help us create our world, they keep us safe and their familiarity is comforting and then sometimes they are the source of our suffering and it is time to let go but how do we do that? Let’s take a look together.

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Selfish and Selfless

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 10 Mar 2024 06:00:00 GMT

Let’s take a look together at both Selfishness and Selflessness and see what we discover. Listen in for a dive into these two related topics there is some wisdom awaiting us here.

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What You Say To Yourself Matters

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 03 Mar 2024 05:00:00 GMT

Do you talk to yourself? Maybe not out loud or often, but pay attention, most of us do and often out loud! In this episode let’s take a look at what we are saying and the difference our words make, even the silent ones that we are listening to all by ourselves.

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Your Attention Is Your Most Valuable Asset

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 25 Feb 2024 06:00:00 GMT

Do you ever get distracted? Do you ever get frustrated, anxious, angry or discouraged? If so, and we all do, listen in.

We don’t often look at life this way however Terces invites you to consider that your attention is your most valuable asset and EVERYONE and EVERYTHING is attempting to gain it, take it from you and direct it where THEY want it to go.

How do you keep it on what you choose?

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The Lesson You Get Is The One You Need

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 18 Feb 2024 06:00:00 GMT

This week we are still on the basic topic of trusting, only this time it looks like trusting that the lesson you are getting is the one you need. By need I am referring to what is best for your growth, your healing, your expansion into the version of you that you were created to be.

Listen in, see if it speaks to you at some soul level.

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The Test of Trusting

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 11 Feb 2024 06:00:00 GMT

Trust is a BIG word, and it can be an enormous challenge, especially if you have been burned or let down before, and most of us have. So, how do we stand up to the ongoing test of trusting and trusting again? Let’s dive in and see what we discover together. In this episode Terces shares a recent story on what she discovered about trusting.

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Where There is Resistance, There is Opportunity

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 04 Feb 2024 18:38:00 GMT

Today’s episode takes a look at how we can embrace our resistance rather than run from it, or attempt to avoid it. Consider that where there is resistance there is opportunity, the opportunity to learn, to grow and to uncover. Let’s explore this together.

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What (our) Children Want to Know

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 28 Jan 2024 06:00:00 GMT

As I sat quietly getting in touch with what there was to share, the title of this episode surfaced. I have been answering the distressed calls from one of our teenage grandchildren recently and oftentimes JUST LISTENING.

She is struggling with navigating her emotions and often feels alone and as if no one is listening. That isn’t true, but it feels that way to her. I was also in a text conversation with the father of one of my sons and found myself wanting to make sure that our son knows his father loves him and will always be there, no matter what. So listen in for a bit more depth as to what I believe all of our children want to know.

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Making Sense of Loss

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 21 Jan 2024 06:00:00 GMT

Recently a friend of one of our daughters lost her partner and his two young daughters in a tragic airplane crash.

She and her daughter would have been on that plane with them, had they not left earlier on a separate flight. How do we deal with loss? Let’s take a look at that together.

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The Rebellious Act of Slowing Down

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 14 Jan 2024 06:00:00 GMT

In today's episode, we will discover just how rebellious of an act it is to SLOW DOWN. If you don’t think so, try it. Welcoming all rebels to join me as we start a New Year of growth and healing together.

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Terces Engelhart — Sun, 17 Dec 2023 06:00:00 GMT

This week I found myself facing how all of us have our life lessons to learn. They don’t show up in the same way although it occurs to me that the lessons are all very similar. What if all the events of your life are your opportunity to earn a PhD in living well?

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What We Take For Granted

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 10 Dec 2023 06:00:00 GMT

This week I am sharing with you as I head into Thanksgiving week, about how easy it is to slip into being unconscious about how well we are provided for and just how much of our day-to-day lives we can take for granted.

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The Simplest Prayer I Know

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 03 Dec 2023 06:00:00 GMT

This week I am sharing with you the simplest prayer I know. We all have those times when we simply don’t know what to do or how to make things better, of what we should or shouldn’t say and in those times this is my prayer.

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Simplify

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 26 Nov 2023 06:00:00 GMT

This week we are looking at how simplifying our lives leads to more clarity, power and focus, and it isn’t easy to do.

I want to remind you that I am offering sessions on Tuesday mornings, if you would like someone to hold space for you and reflect back just how amazing you are, you can sign up on my website.

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Terces Engelhart — Sun, 09 Oct 2022 05:00:00 GMT

This week I am trying something new, I am reading one of the stories from my book and also recording with video!

There is always a lesson or insight in each of the stories and today's is about the experience of being validated. Let's look at this together.

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I am homeless ... yet I have received so much generosity from strangers... why is that so?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 02 Oct 2022 05:00:00 GMT

This week I am sharing an email from someone asking, I am homeless ... yet I have received so much generosity from strangers... why is that so? You don’t need to be homeless to relate to being on the receiving end of other people's generosity, listen in

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There is no “away”, talking trash

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 25 Sep 2022 05:00:59 GMT

This week I am sharing from a personal experience hosting an event here on the farm, where over a hundred boxes of “stuff” was shipped in prior to the event, all the trash that was created as well as the “trash” we allow in our own lives.

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Paying attention to what we consume

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 18 Sep 2022 05:00:04 GMT

This week I am sharing a conversation I had with a dear friend about her awareness of the impact of what she consumes, music, movies, food, etc.

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If you don’t love it, release it!

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 11 Sep 2022 05:00:25 GMT

This week I am sharing my experience of beginning to pack. We have taught for years, that if you don’t love something release it! Listen in to simplify your life.

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Terces Engelhart — Sun, 24 Jul 2022 05:00:34 GMT

Changing seasons

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 15 May 2022 05:00:54 GMT

This episode is responding to someone dealing with navigating the changing of life seasons. Listen in if you are facing a new opportunity or change in your life.

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Building confidence

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 08 May 2022 11:30:37 GMT

This week we are still in the series where you send me a real-life situation or question and have me respond on an upcoming podcast. Remember I don’t have your answers, you do, however, I might just share a perspective you haven’t thought of and it may just give you some freedom or more growing room. Just email me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply on an upcoming podcast. This episode is responding to someone asking me how they can build their confidence, as they often find themselves doubting or second-guessing themselves.

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The co-working opportunity

Terces Engelhart — Mon, 02 May 2022 00:49:55 GMT

This week we are still in the series where you send me a real life situation or question and have me respond on an upcoming podcast. Remember I don’t have your answers, you do, however I might just share a perspective you haven’t thought of and it may just give you some freedom or more growing room. Just email me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply on an upcoming podcast.

This episode is responding to someone asking me about the importance of having a sponsor, mentor or accountability buddy.

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Your life is your word

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 24 Apr 2022 11:30:15 GMT

This week we are still in the series where you send me a real-life situation or question and have me respond on an upcoming podcast. Remember I don’t have your answers, you do, however, I might just share a perspective you haven’t thought of and it may just give you some freedom or more growing room. Just email me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply on an upcoming podcast. This episode is responding to someone dear to me dealing with having their integrity out as a result of being caught up in the. “Cancel culture”, and the ultimate power that comes when we take a stand and be our word. Listen in for some insights on how we could all align ourselves more powerfully with what we give our word to.

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The necessity of forgiveness

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 17 Apr 2022 11:00:00 GMT

This episode is responding to someone's question about why they should continue to forgive, especially when the other person isn’t changing.

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Ordinary life as access to the extraordinary

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 10 Apr 2022 11:00:47 GMT

This episode is responding to someone’s inquiry about wanting to get beyond the day-to-day ordinary experiences of life.

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Naps and other necessities

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 03 Apr 2022 11:00:54 GMT

This week I am returning to the series we are still in where you send me a real-life situation or question and have me respond on an upcoming podcast. Remember I don’t have your answers, you do, however, I might just share a perspective you haven’t thought of and it may just give you some freedom or more growing room. Just email me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply on an upcoming podcast.

This episode is responding to someone’s inquiry about just needing to slow down, take a nap, and distance themselves from so much chaos.

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We need one another

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 27 Mar 2022 11:30:00 GMT

This episode is responding to someone’s inquiry about resisting others and wanting to do it on their own.

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Experiencing being alone or lonely?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 20 Mar 2022 11:30:00 GMT

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Inner War, outer war

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 13 Mar 2022 11:30:00 GMT

This week I am taking a break from the series we are in where I respond to questions that listeners have sent me. If you want to send in a real-life situation or question and have me respond, just email me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply on an upcoming podcast. This week however due to the current state of our world I’m sharing some thoughts on war, the internal ones we fight, and the external ones that happen around us.

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Terces Engelhart — Sun, 30 Jan 2022 12:30:00 GMT

More about our bodies.

Description: We are in a new series where I respond to questions that listeners have sent me. If you want to send in a real-life situation or question and have me respond, just email me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply on an upcoming podcast. This week is a continuation of responding to the question “How do I learn to love my body”, as there is so much to share.

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Learning to love and appreciate my body

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 23 Jan 2022 12:30:00 GMT

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How is your body today?

Are there aches, pains

Tensions, strains?

Does it feel lively and strong,

Happily humming along?

Can you sense yourself inside of it?

Can you…occupy your space?

Isn’t it a wonder?

This body…this home…this miracle.

When we take the time to pay attention

When we slow down, breathe deep, turn in

We may discover infinity in here

The answers to our greatest queries

The serenity we seek

All the worlds we wish to travel

That which we long to commune with

Pray to, listen for

Resides right here, in us

As us, is us

Isn’t it a wonder?

This body…this home…this miracle.

We are the cosmos embodied

The divine taken form

We are ocean and mountain

Songbird and rain

We are sunrise and moonbeam

The thundering of hooves

We are flowering trees

And night-blooming jasmine

We are vast open spaces

And deep ancient caves

We are the song of the whale

The flutter of wings

We are all of this and more

We are truly, everything

Isn’t it a wonder?

This body…this home…this miracle.

Let us offer thanks and praises

For this blessing of blessings

And may we all learn to become

Home-Bodies

At home, at ease, in joy

Right here in our luminous bodies.

Shabbat Shalom,

Miriam Chaia

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I have such a difficult time receiving help, any suggestions?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 16 Jan 2022 17:00:00 GMT

We are in a new series where I respond to questions that listeners have sent me. If you want to send in a real-life situation or question and have me respond, just email me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply on an upcoming podcast. This week someone asked me “Do you have any suggestions for learning how to receive, I am so uncomfortable with other peoples help?”

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How do I take care of myself without being self centered?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 09 Jan 2022 12:30:00 GMT

We are in a new series where I respond to questions that listeners have sent me. If you want to send in a real life situation or question and have me respond, just email me at terces@tercesengelhart.com and I will reply on an upcoming podcast. This week someone asked me “How do I take care of myself without being self centered?” It’s a great question, let’s look at it together.

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It’s 2022, a NEW year, a NEW you!

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 02 Jan 2022 12:30:00 GMT

Description: Have you ever considered that as human beings we actually need to have a future we are living into? Something to look forward to, something that draws us into our next step, whatever that step may be. Think about it and then listen in, there is a future awaiting you.

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Moving in new ways

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 22 Aug 2021 11:30:00 GMT

Have you ever notice sometimes you just have to get moving? Energy gets stuck, just like my new Roomba vacuum, a little nudge on the side, and it's off and running again. Listen in for ways to start moving, disrupting what may feel like being stuck!

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Before and After

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 15 Aug 2021 11:30:00 GMT

Let’s take a look at the impact of before and after moments. As we are always in the midst of them, aren’t we? Let's be more aware of how we creating our after moment experiences.

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Listening is the highest form of loving

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 08 Aug 2021 11:30:00 GMT

Most of us know that our relationships would be in better shape if we were better listeners, and yet we often fail to listen. Let’s look at this together and see how we might all speak less and listen more, leaving others with the experience of being heard.

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Memories and love

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 01 Aug 2021 11:30:00 GMT

We will all die one day, what our experience is of it, and those around us may vary, and yet, it is love that matters most. I changed the title, so the zencastr one doesn't match!

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Another way of looking at justice

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 25 Jul 2021 11:30:00 GMT

I grew up with guilt and shame, it’s just the way it was. The God I knew about was a God of retribution, Jesus however was a more loving presence which I gravitated to.

Justice is often thought of as balance, but what if it is more about how can we stand in the flow of infinite love in the midst of our worst moments? Then what?

Listen in, see what you hear.

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You just never know

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 18 Jul 2021 11:30:00 GMT

It seems we live in a time where knowledge is held high and yet I am so aware of the power of ‘not knowing”. What if you just stuck with whatever you are doing consistently, not knowing the outcome, what might happen? Or what if you simply gave, gave of whatever you have to give trusting that the gift itself has value, whether you ever experience it or not? Living into you just never know is trusting. Come on, listen in. You never know what might be in it for you.

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Go Inward, it is where the goodies are

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 11 Jul 2021 11:30:00 GMT

It is easy to get mesmerized by the outer world, there is a lot of noise, flash and quite frankly distractions to keep you and I occupied most days and nights, and YET… so many famous people have demonstrated for us that getting all the outer circumstances right is no guarantee for health, happiness or

long and fulfilling life. So listen in for the opportunity to remember that all the goodies we seek are actually available when we go inward and use life as an opportunity to align ourselves with the unceasing flow of everything.

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A lesson worth remembering

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 04 Jul 2021 11:30:00 GMT

I’m so grateful life isn’t void of lessons. In fact, I look forward to learning new things every day. I suspect it is staying open, willing to learn, that keeps me youthful. I can only imagine that the stiffness elderly folks are known for may extend to our thoughts, emotions as well as our bodies. May we stay forever young!

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Mama Hawk

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 27 Jun 2021 11:30:00 GMT

Nature teaches us some amazing, incredible, and often difficult lessons. This episode takes me back to my own mama hawk the one I was raised by and the one I became. We all can learn something from these few moments together. Thanks for listening in.

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The Clothes line

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 20 Jun 2021 11:30:00 GMT

We have all heard how failure often births something new, or what’s next. This past week was full of failures for me and once again I discovered that if I lean into the mess of failure and don’t get lost in it, something amazing, inspiring and unexpected may arise. Listen in so you too can glean some insights on how best to embrace and rise up out of failures.

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A Meaningful life

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 13 Jun 2021 11:30:00 GMT

There has been a focus on our WHY lately. I notice it showing up in a lot of different conversations, however as I read Mans Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl, I find myself reflecting on the journey of recovery and just how that applies. Listen in if you wonder what your meaningful life is all about.

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What is the source of peace

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 06 Jun 2021 11:30:00 GMT

In a time when there seems to be so much disruption, disagreement and interference in our lives, where do you go to find peace. To rest in the quiet as you exhale and breathe in a peaceful existence. Listen in for some insights on how to be more peaceful.

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Generational Wisdom

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 30 May 2021 11:30:00 GMT

So much of wisdom has to do with time, the passage of time, aging, living more days, more years. When I was young I thought I knew, I know less now. Today is my eldest son's 45th birthday, in looking back I see ahead. Listen in and see what you see for yourself.

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Apocalyptic Hope

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 23 May 2021 11:30:00 GMT

What if the apocalypse was less about destruction and fear and was more about clearing out the old while making room for something new? What could you let go of, what stories, events, or old ways of thinking have you perhaps become overly attached to? Listen in

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Unreasonably Grateful

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 16 May 2021 11:30:00 GMT

It’s time to dive into the name of this podcast, for me as well as for you. I think we often live in the circumstances of life, it seems normal to do so. This happens, that’s good, that happens that’s not good. Things go well, I”m happy, things don’t go well, I’m not happy, you know what I mean? Well, what if that’s backward? What if we can be any way we choose for no reason at all? Check it out.

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Motherhood

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 09 May 2021 11:30:00 GMT

Today is a bitter-sweet one, it seems it must be as mothering is bitter and sweet. I don’t know of a mother who hasn’t suffered over being just that, the one who stands in for a life until that life can stand for itself. As James Faust said, the influence of a mother is beyond all calculations. So today, listen in as Terces calls forth and celebrates mothers everywhere.

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We all fall short

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 02 May 2021 11:30:00 GMT

Maybe it's most important that we forgive ourselves, over and over again. I don’t know about you but I fail to live up to who I want most to be on a daily basis, and often with those I love the most. So, how do we continue to build on who we are, continue to be the best of ourselves we forgive our shortcomings. Listen in for more.

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Rejoice

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 25 Apr 2021 11:30:00 GMT

This week Terces shares how to rejoice in all the moments of life. If we only wait for the BIG things we will spend a lot of time waiting. She asks you to consider there is an endless number of moments for rejoicing in every single day. It’s a practice, one that will lift your spirit and aid you in being aware of just how much there truly is to rejoice for.

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Sacrifice

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 18 Apr 2021 11:30:00 GMT

Sacrifice can be a tough word to swallow for most of us and yet in this episode, Terces walks us through all the sacrifices that are made on our behalf daily and help us all see what a vital part of life sacrifice actually is.

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Emptying and Filling

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 11 Apr 2021 11:30:00 GMT

It’s actually a lot more difficult than you and I might think to stay empty. Try it, clean off a counter in your kitchen and see how long it takes before things start ending up there. Terces shares the value of being empty and beginning a new each day. There is some wisdom here.

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Keeping it light and fun

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 04 Apr 2021 11:30:00 GMT

It is so easy to take things in life TOO SERIOUSLY when they aren’t. Most of us aren’t dealing with life and death situations however we sometimes act as if we are. In this Episode Terces invites you to step back from your circumstances and lighten up, she even gives you a fun and inexpensive way to practice doing that. Listen in for a heart-opening experience.

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Giving up, where gumption is grown

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 28 Mar 2021 11:30:00 GMT

Terces spoke with a friend recently who was feeling like the pain wasn’t worth the joy and she wanted to give up. We have all been there, “Is it worth it?” is the question, “I don’t want to”is the experience.

Listen in for how Terces navigates the challenging times, she experiences them too.

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Hallelujah

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 21 Mar 2021 11:30:00 GMT

Considering that each breath is a gift Terces shares an experience she had where she felt as if she was the breath of God. It wasn’t that God was breathing her, it was her breath was the same breath as that of God. Listen in for a real Hallelujah moment.

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It’s the little things

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 14 Mar 2021 11:30:00 GMT

It seems to be so easy to focus on the big stuff in life, the successes the failures, and even all the attempts we make at healing, getting stronger, braver, beginning again, relationships, you get the idea. In this episode Terces shares about the value of the little things, those things that keep us going, inspire at the moment, those things we can look forward to that keep our chins up when perhaps we are feeling challenged. Nothing is too small to make a difference, listen in so you too can set your sights on all those precious little things in life.

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Life after Death

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 07 Mar 2021 12:30:00 GMT

Life does go on and we may well grieve differently however in this episode Terces shares her experience and the freedom she discovered after experiencing so much death in one week. Consider there is death happening all the time, she shares how nature shows us that on a daily basis, and even in our human experience think about all the deaths and dying that happens in our day-to-day lives. So, now how Titleabout the life that comes after death, let’s start there.

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Death and our celebration of life

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 28 Feb 2021 12:30:00 GMT

Terces experienced more death these past few days than she ever could have imagined. In this episode, she shares with you just how she noticed she was processing it and what that process led her to discover about life Be sure to listen in there is the wisdom we can all learn from and an invitation to celebrate life like never before.

This is a heart-opening experience. I promise.

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What is your breakthrough?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 21 Feb 2021 12:30:00 GMT

Recently I have been feeling something bubble up to the surface and I am still in the midst of fully discovering just what it is. In this episode Terces lets us into her own process of discovery, believing your process will in some ways mirror hers allowing you to see something that may be wanting to be expressed, shared or simply named. Listen in if you are wanting more clarity, deeper understanding or even just a glimpse into what may be coming up in your life.

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Yes or No

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 14 Feb 2021 12:30:00 GMT

Have you ever felt trapped by your commitments, or guilty for turning a request or opportunity down? In this episode, Terces shares how important it is to be powerful in both yes and no. In fact, if we aren’t then both of those replies are weak. See if you say yes all the time you will over commit and fail to show up sometimes. If your no is weak then so is your yes. The same is true to another way around. If you say no all the time and struggle to say yes, then your yeses are weak or even nonexistent. Ultimately what gives us the most power is the ability to say yes or no freely.

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An Abundant View- living in the flow

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 07 Feb 2021 12:30:00 GMT

In this episode, Terces shares more deeply about seeing life through the lens of PLENTY. She asks us all to consider that we are born into a view of scarcity, some version of not enough, and yet, if we look at our lives we can see that for most of us we have always enjoyed more than enough. So how do we stay in the unceasing flow of everything, listen in to discover for yourself?

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Another perspective

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 31 Jan 2021 12:30:00 GMT

Just this morning I found myself reflecting on the time in my recovery when I wrote out a story from my life, however, I did it from a different perspective. Consider that we all live inside our story of our life. If we can stand in a different corner, or view it from a new perspective I wonder just what you might discover. Listen in, let’s see what you discover.

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Present or not

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 12:30:00 GMT

Just recently I was reminded of the value of actually being here. Present, available, awake, however, you discern what it is to be actually here, now. It may seem obvious but in the episode, Terces suggests that mostly we aren’t here, now. It is so easy to drift into another space and time, where worry, concern, fear, doubt all take up permanent residence. Listen in for a tune-up in tuning in.

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I wonder if….

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 17 Jan 2021 12:30:00 GMT

Have you ever stopped to wonder if we all put our attention on love what might show up? I mean really, not like pie in the sky kind of thinking but really loving, letting whomever we are with leave the interaction knowing they matter, we heard them, we care and they are loved. Seems idealistic which tells us something, we aren’t already doing this. So, let’s take it on, even just give it a good old one-two-three try and see for ourselves what happens. Ready, listen in.

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Be still, Go inward

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 10 Jan 2021 12:30:00 GMT

As the New Year unfolds and we continue to face challenges in gathering, celebrating, even just doing business as the division grows and people seem more against than for one another Terces suggests that we get still and go inward. It’s time to stop looking outside of ourselves for guidance and instead rely on some inner “knowing”. She references some of the seemingly “crazy” guidance she received in early recovery that now looking back was the perfect next step. So as we begin to move forward let’s first get still and listen.

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Are you going through or growing through life?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 03 Jan 2021 12:30:00 GMT

In this episode, Terces has a conversation with Cody Byrns an internationally known speaker and author. Cody was in a horrific accident when he was 23 years old and his story of survival and then living life to the fullest in chock full of insights that everyone can benefit from especially as we all pivot during these challenging times. Listen in for some gems of wisdom.

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The gifting season

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 27 Dec 2020 12:30:00 GMT

This week Terces looks at how a gift only has power when it exchanges hands. There is an energy to a gift, what is that? she asks. Then explores who we need to be to receive and experience all the gifts of this life have to offer. Listen in for a real gift!

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What are you preparing for?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 20 Dec 2020 12:30:00 GMT

Preparations are often thought out well in advance, they even take more time than the event or occurrence itself. Terces inspires us to take a close look at what we are preparing for day by day.

She has us consider that the preparation may be the most important and powerful part of how our lives are shaped.

Think about it, come listen in and take a deep dive into what you are preparing for?

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Once upon a time, do you fantasize?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 13 Dec 2020 12:30:00 GMT

This week Terces explores with us the letting go of fantasies, the acceptance of reality, and the possibility of creating a future free from the past.

It’s not easy to let go, it’s also not easy to create freely as we drag so much of our past with us. So as Terces shared, let’s embrace and learn from our past, thank it for the contribution it was and then step into creating a future worthy of your life, what do you say?

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In the beginning

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 06 Dec 2020 12:30:00 GMT

This episode goes back to the beginning. Terces shares once again the four steps that led to her recovery and still keep her healthy and well. She takes us through those steps so that perhaps others can see themselves on the same path leading their way out of whatever is holding them back.

Simple yes, easy no. Listen in, it’s life-changing.

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The transforming power of love

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 29 Nov 2020 12:30:00 GMT

Terces has often said, Love has a way of asking everything of you, so it can give everything to you. Listen in for some insights into what that might look like and how each of us can be a part of the transformation. Let's not let hate keep us separated.

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Choosing, it's your life.

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 22 Nov 2020 12:30:00 GMT

Terces has shared before about the power of choice, you may have even heard her say it is the most spiritual thing you can do and in this episode she dives farther into the power of choice and how if we don’t choose something the next choice will never arrive. Listen in not because you are stuck but simply for some insights into something we all do all day long every day whether we know it or not.

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Who are you?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 15 Nov 2020 12:30:00 GMT

Some of us get our worth in what we get done, we have talked about that. But who are you? Some of us look outside of ourselves and see what we have accumulated, or accomplished and may thing that says something about who we are. Some of us, aren’t sure. Some of us are still seeking the answer to that question. in this episode, Terces talks about discovering who each of us is and our value in the mix of things in this big wide world of ours. Who are you, really?

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Go ahead, say it.

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 08 Nov 2020 12:30:00 GMT

Have you ever just not said anything? It doesn’t really matter why, just that you didn’t. Instead of chasing the why or why not, look and see who you would need to be to speak up now. Terces shared how she learned and is still learning that her voice matters, so does yours. It isn’t about being smart, or having the right answer, or even knowing anything, she suggests in this episode that it is more about opening your heart, sinking in deeper to your own inner knowing, and then giving it a voice.

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Pay Attention

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 01 Nov 2020 12:30:00 GMT

Perhaps one of the things that we all take for granted is our attention.in this episode Terces helps us see, appreciate and value our attention, or worship power as she calls it. Think about it, what we are attending to, what is captivating our attention we are actually worshiping, as time is our most precious commodity. Listen in, you will hear something that will give you some new insights into your own life.

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HELP I’m stuck

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 25 Oct 2020 11:30:00 GMT

Let’s talk about being stuck, we all get there, sometimes it is outer circumstances that feel out of our control and sometimes its inner circumstances, ones we actually do have a say over. So, ok, you are stuck now what? In this episode, Terces explores how she gets unstuck, and shares tools that you may find helpful also, so relax, that’s the first step, and listen in, you may feel like she is speaking directly to you.

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Distraction or Attraction

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 18 Oct 2020 11:30:00 GMT

Today I ask myself many times a day, am I being distracted or am I attracting. If my answer is I”m attracting then I look to see just what am I attracting. You can always tell, it’s what is all around you. Consider we are all a bit like velcro, attracting the opposite, have you ever wondered why or how come? Terces shares a way of looking at it that may just give you a little bit of hope, or of encouragement, listen in and see.

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What Really Matters?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:30:00 GMT

In this episode Terces shares how she chose to celebrate her 70th Birthday. Consider that when all you have is threatened you get clear on what really matters, and what does matter, matters more.

We can all take time to get clarity in our lives, like never before much of what we thought was guaranteed, solid or dependable may not be, so when that happens, when you see what is real and what isn’t then you can choose, really choose what matters most and be sure that you are designing your life (and your celebrations) around that.

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Repair or Despair, choose

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 04 Oct 2020 11:30:00 GMT

In this episode, Terces reminds us that we always have a choice.

Having just come through the LNU Lightning Complex fires, she is present to the choice people are making as some sit in despair and others begin the repairing phase. She reminds us that it isn’t good if you are in repair and bad if you are in despair, it is simply where you are.

And we are always just a choice away.

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Do you trust you?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 27 Sep 2020 11:30:00 GMT

In this episode Terces shares the value of restoring trust, beginning with trusting ourselves. Listen in on ways to initiate a trusting relationship with you.

Notes:

To be in touch with Terces, terces@tercesengelhart.com

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Do what it takes

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 20 Sep 2020 11:30:00 GMT

In this episode, Terces shares the value of using and sharing from what you currently have available. Think about it, so often we think we need to have more to give, to have more to do something new, to have more to make something work.

What if all we need to do is open up and share from where we are, to take on taking the next step in an uncertain future, and to enjoy the journey along the way.

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Jump high

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 13 Sep 2020 11:30:00 GMT

In this episode, Terces shares the value of recognizing our limitations from the past and then returning to the freedom we were created with. Living in and encouraging others to jump high in life.

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Insurance of Assurance

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 06 Sep 2020 11:30:00 GMT

Terces shares how in the ashes of our past there just maybe the power of assurance in a brighter future. Listen in.

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Evacuation on a hot August night

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 30 Aug 2020 11:30:00 GMT

Terces shares of her recent experience of the wildfires in her area and of being evacuated in the middle of the night. The emotions and adrenaline that she ran on for days as they fought the fires that destroyed homes around them and were ultimately saved by the efforts of friends and the care they had taken of the land for years that provided green protection. She ends with an insight that she invites you to consider that may just change the way you see yourself and the world.

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Remembering And Forgetting

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 23 Aug 2020 11:30:00 GMT

Can you celebrate your successes in the midst of forgetting your failures or celebrate your failures in the midst of forgetting your successes? I’m asking myself those questions right now. In this episode, Terces explores both paths and suggests that it is healing if we can walk down either one and say YES.

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Gratitude, Grace, And Appreciation

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 16 Aug 2020 11:30:00 GMT

Sometimes in the midst of living in the unknown what there is to attend to is our awareness. I know no other practice as powerful as giving thanks to keeping myself present and free to choose just what it is I am committed to experiencing. In this episode Terces shares some insights and practices on how to experience the state of grace by continually being grateful.

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Gifts and Gifting

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 11:30:00 GMT

In this episode Terces invites us to look at how we receive and reminds us that the value of a gift lies in our ability to receive it.

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From Hopeless To Hope

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 02 Aug 2020 11:30:00 GMT

Sometimes hopelessness grabs a hold of us and in this episode Terces shares how we can shift and move in the direction of feeling hopeful.

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Love not War

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 26 Jul 2020 11:30:00 GMT

In this episode, Terces shares how the new is created on the destruction of the old.

The reason is I have heard people say they don't know what order the episodes go in, I suspect if they are not listening week after week. So maybe if we number them it will be helpful. Thoughts?

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Victim or not

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 19 Jul 2020 11:30:00 GMT

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Seek the new opportunity

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 12 Jul 2020 11:30:00 GMT

It may be difficult to see however consider that pain is an indication of how much you care and every problem or challenge is also a new opportunity

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Name your sadness

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 05 Jul 2020 11:30:00 GMT

Terces walks us through letting go of sadness or anger by going right into it and looking for the lesson or contribution it may be wanting to gift you.

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What are you standing for?

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 28 Jun 2020 11:30:00 GMT

In this episode, Terces explores the threads that ran through her own recovery and how they are impacting her life today. She invites you to look at what breaks your heart open and seek the threads of truth in those moments. Who or what do you trust?

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In to me you see

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 21 Jun 2020 11:30:00 GMT

It has been said that real intimacy is born of transparency, one's willingness to share openly and honestly with another.

In this episode Terces shares from her first experience of actually saying our loud to another woman what she was dealing with and the ongoing importance in her journey of being transparent, willing to leet others into her inner world.

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Self-forgiveness

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 14 Jun 2020 11:30:00 GMT

In this episode Terces shares about the process of self-forgiveness which can often be slower and more difficult than being forgiven by others. Lean in hear what she has to say, it could set you free.

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Begin Anew

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 07 Jun 2020 11:30:00 GMT

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What if each morning we actually slowed down enough to have the awareness that it really is a new day, a new beginning, an opportunity to begin anew. Terces shares her insights from both her recovery and welcoming her husband and friends back in after over ten weeks away, missing the entire Corona Virus pandemic, and the context that most inspires her offers us all something we could incorporate into our lives creating curiosity, wonder, and love.

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Lead with Love, apologize often

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 31 May 2020 04:30:00 GMT

Today's actions or inactions create our own history, and I am free to go back in time and apologize or take responsibility for the impact I had on someone else, leaving the door open for the presence of grace.

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The win is in the direction of your surrender.

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 24 May 2020 04:30:00 GMT

Terces shares her own experience of fighting for being in control, in an attempt to manage the circumstances and maintain some sense of sanity, while all the while experiencing going crazy. What if we do the work to really look at what we are attempting to control or what we perceive the win is, actually name it, we begin to see that the real win is in the direction fo our surrender.

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Watch out for barking dogs

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 17 May 2020 04:30:00 GMT

In this episode Terces shares about the fine line that often separates our wounds from our healing.

We can all be better at recognizing our distractions, like barking dogs, the real work is what is happening inside of ourselves, not our circumstances, or ways we take things personally.

She shares how being present allows for more love and more grace and leads to our healing.

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Mothers and Daughters

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 10 May 2020 04:30:00 GMT

In this episode Terces shares how women rise up to become mothers with the gift of grace. Dedicated to her daughter and to all mothers everywhere, you won't want to miss this one.

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Welcome Home

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 03 May 2020 04:30:00 GMT

We each play a part in one another's healing. Terces shares how we can embrace our emotional experiences by honoring them.

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I don't know

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 26 Apr 2020 04:30:00 GMT

In this episode Terces invites us to let go of our need to know, to always have a response or answer and instead step into resting in the void of the unknown and see what shows up!

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Our gifting is often in the direction of our most pain

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 19 Apr 2020 04:30:00 GMT

We often avoid painful moments and yet their is always a gift awaiting us when we lean into

Our pain rather than away from it.

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Love one another

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 12 Apr 2020 04:30:00 GMT

In this episode, Terces shares about being patient, kind and willing to wait, even when there is no end in sight.

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A Cry for Help!

Terces Engelhart — Sun, 05 Apr 2020 04:30:00 GMT

It is good to get to the end of our rope, so to speak. To realize that outside of us there is a presence, a loving and compassionate guide that will ease your journey when you ask for help. You were not designed to "go it alone". When we take what we struggle with, whatever that may be, and reframe it as a request for help, help comes and we are more empowered.

References:

I would like to thank Brian for putting structure to my experience so that I could more powerfully communicate what I had walked through.
Naked Spirituality by Brian D. McLaren

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The Temptation of the carpool lane

Terces Engelhart — Wed, 11 Mar 2020 15:37:59 GMT

In this episode, Terces shares the cost, the signs and the way out of temptation.

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Trading shoelaces with Jesus

Terces Engelhart — Tue, 10 Mar 2020 14:44:10 GMT

In this episode, Terces reminds us of the feeling of being selected for a team when we were younger and asks us to consider what our lives would look like if we lived as if we are chosen. She also shares a way to confront the self-destructive messages that perhaps we all have at one time or another. Her shoelace story turns out to have some powerful guiding principles.

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What do you REALLY call yourself?

Terces Engelhart — Fri, 06 Mar 2020 15:36:01 GMT

In this episode, we explore the names we use and the feelings they elicit, as we usher in the new.

Terces shares when YOU ARE HERE everything else takes on a new perspective.

References:

tercesengelhart.com

belovefarm.com

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