if you've ever had to make a hard call with no backup plan, navigate an uncomfortable situation with grace, or just needed to know that someone else has been thrown into the lion's den of pivots and made it out ... this one's for you.

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📖 curious about the prose piece that started it all? read part 1 here: didn't invite fear into my plans, but it found me anyway — https://open.substack.com/pub/brittanymctier/p/didnt-invite-fear-into-my-plans-but?r=1piv2l&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web

📖 want to read the full written version of this episode: turns out the detour had detours — https://open.substack.com/pub/brittanymctier/p/turns-out-the-detour-had-detours-0fc?r=1piv2l&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web

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When you embrace your own light, it becomes easier to celebrate the light in others. That’s exactly the shift my upcoming From Envy to Aligned Action workbook is designed to spark.

I’ll be sharing more soon, but for now… maybe step outside tonight. Let the moon remind you of who you are, too.

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00:00 Intro

01:21 Rule 3 Be Accountable for Your Consciousness

02:47 Rule 4 Be Focused

04:25 Rule 6 Be Passionate

05:53 Rule 7 Be Blessed

07:21 Rule 9 Be Courageous

08:46 Rule 10: Be a catalyst for good

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00:00 Intro

00:42 Today's Topic

00:58 "I've been losing friends but finding peace. Honestly, that sounds like a fair trade to me." - Drake 02:07 Book Review: Safe People: How to find relationships that are good for You and avoid those that aren't by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend

02:49 How the Book Defines Safe People

03:13 Four of the book's Safe People Traits to Look for

03:46 How the Book Defines Unsafe People

04:43 Four of the book's Unsafe People Traits to Look for

07:06 My Top questions to help identify if someone is safe for our wellbeing


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https://www.mindovermatter4evaaa.com/

00:00 Intro

00:43 Today's Topic

02:15 Declutter your mind to uncover your dreams

07:07 Look up the skills/steps you need to make your dreams a reality

08:01 Example 1 Career Pivot

08:51 Example 2 Finding a one-bedroom apartment

09:58 Sometimes, your friends won't understand your vision initially...keep on, keeping on

12:46 Believe you can get it


The Soul Fast Workbook by Cassandra Mackhttps://bookshop.org/a/85977/9781521012376

Unleash Your Unstoppable by Cassandra Mackhttps://bookshop.org/a/85977/9781071077771

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00:00 Intro

00:42 Today's Topic

06:50 Change is Inevitable

08:00 Mental Health Tip

00:00 Channel Intro

00:44 Today's Topic

01:28 Lesson number 1: Loving yourself means giving yourself grace when you make a mistake.

02:12 Lesson number 4: Your peace is nonnegotiable.

02:20 Lesson number 5: If someone judges you negatively before attempting to get to know you, that is not your problem to resolve.

02:47 Lesson number 7: How you enforce your boundaries isn't for someone else to decide.

03:13 Lesson number 9: TRUE POWER is self-focused and not used to dominate others.

03:49 Lesson number 12: Your self-esteem plummets when you act out of alignment with your morals and values.

04:07 Lesson number 14: Others will try to project their insecurities onto you as criticisms of you, and you decide whether to let them succeed.

04:21 Lesson number 15: Discernment is your best friend.

04:32 Lesson number 16: What others think about you will always be less important than what you KNOW about yourself.

05:35 Lesson number 19: Kindness is a strength in this world where people pretend that cosplaying as a Grinch is a better option.

06:14 Lesson number 22: Be curious and learn to be okay with being wrong.

07:30 Lesson number 25: If you give grace to others, you also deserve grace.

012:14 Lesson number 27: Not all confrontations are harmful.

#lifelessons #saturnreturn #personalgrowth #turning30

00:00 Channel Intro

00:44 Today's Topic

01:34 Sometimes you gotta tell 'em no!

04:44 Accepting other people's no

06:06 Tips for enforcing your boundaries

Step by step..day by day..week by week…how do you plan your time so that you can reach your goals? This has been one of the ongoing lessons life is teaching me. Here is part 2 of my shared tips that have been helpful for me in getting things done while taking care of myself in the process.

Article about how each stage of life needs a certain amount of sleep to function correctly: https://www.sleepfoundation.org/how-sleep-works/how-much-sleep-do-we-really-need

00:00 Intro

00:47 Topic of the Day

01:18 Let go of your inner critic/release self-judgment

02:36 Quote from Shad Helmstetter, author of the book What to Say When You Talk to Yourself

02:54 Get up and get moving

03:55. Find a hobby that helps you get out of a mental funk

05:22 Take your sleep schedule more seriously

07:37 You won't always be motivated...

Step by step..day by day..week by week…how do you plan your time so that you can reach your goals? This has been one of the ongoing lessons life is teaching me, and I decided to share tips that have been helpful for me in getting things done while taking care of myself in the process.

00:00 Intro

00:45 Topic of the Day

01:45 Preplanning works WONDERS

04:05 Quote from Ramit Sethi, Author of I Will Teach You to Be Rich

04:23 Life be lifin'

06:32 Tips that I use to take care of myself and Stay disciplined

00:00 Intro00:43 Topic of the Day02:39 Reflect on what brings you joy05:20 Each season of our life has beauty07:12 Quick Tips for keeping your head up when you want to lie down and give up