If you have ever had a dream that the world kept trying to put in a box, this episode is for you. Sonya Costello has been building the Be Love Movement for over a decade, and it has been an act of courage over doubt every single step of the way. This is the unexpected love story of what happens when a woman is asked to let love lead while fear of judgment is screaming in the background.

It started with a sticker. One sticker, a graphic designer friend, and a feeling she could not shake. What followed was ten years of doubt, buried dreams, other people’s opinions, and a mission that refused to die no matter how many times she almost let it go. The Be Love Movement is not what most people think love looks like. And that is exactly the point.

This one is for the woman who knows she was given something real and keeps talking herself out of it anyway.

SPECIAL GUEST ~ Sonya Costello, founder of the Be Love Movement

Be Love Movement started with two words on a parked car that stopped founder Sonya in her tracks every morning: Be Love.What began as a simple sticker, something she created just to share that feeling with others, grew into a heart-centered community built on one core belief: love is abundant, always present, and powerful enough to change the world one small act at a time.Sonya built this movement from personal experience, knowing what it feels like to need a reminder that love is still here, even in challenging times. That's exactly why Be Love exists: to inspire positive change, cultivate meaningful connection, and remind people that self-love, compassion, and kindness are never small things.Whether you're sharing a smile with a stranger or showing up more fully for yourself, you belong here. Join the journey and help us change the world…one heart at a time.

Be Love Movement website: belovemovement.com

Be Love Movement on Instagram: @belovemovement

Connect with Deb D and The BeHER Collective on Substack or via our website.

The BeHER Collective ~ a global movement for the Intuitive HERoines of the Gentle Revolution. Our mission is to inspire and activate one million plus Intuitive HERoines worldwide.

Discover the archetype that reveals how your intuition flows most naturally and unlock your intuitive superpower.

Connect with your intuition and take the Intuitive HERoine Archetype Quiz!

Holly Corbett spent years as a journalist at some of the biggest magazine houses in the world, weaving women’s stories into print, and it took her own identity shift to realise she had been telling everyone else’s story while quietly abandoning her own.

Holly and Deb D go deep on the moment Holly followed her intuition into New York City with no job and no plan, how human design cracked open her identity in ways data alone never could, and why the line between journalist and intuitive reader was never as clear as she thought. This one is full of the kind of honesty that makes you want to call out your own life.

This is for the woman in midlife who feels ready for something bigger but hasn’t quite allowed herself to yet.

Find Holly at Holly Corbett on Substack: Human Design by Holly

Get your customized human design chart by visiting Holly on Substack.

SPECIAL GUEST ~ Holly C Corbett Gennone

I’m a journalist (former Condé Nast, Hearst), Forbes contributor, human design specialist, and Reiki Master. I believe we need a new value system that’s not just about profit, but also centers people and the planet. I interview women leaders who bet on themselves, drive change, and/or embody conscious leadership.

https://www.humandesignbyholly.com

https://www.hollycorbett.com

Connect with Deb D and The BeHER Collective on Substack

https://substack.com/@thebehercollective

Email Deb D: debd@thebehercollective.com

Website: https://thebehercollective.com

JULY 2026! First Anniversary of The BeHER Collective Special

Intuitive Readings with Deb D + personalized channeling with Sage and The Blue Family

75-minute Reading. Live and Recorded on Zoom.

Normally $444. July ONLY! 50% OFF.

Book your intuitive channeled session for $222

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Use Code 222BONUS at checkout.

You have read the books, done the programs, followed the practices, and still feel like you are getting it wrong, or maybe it only works for some women, and you are not her.

There is a reason for that, and it is not you.

This episode is for every woman who is serious about personal growth and ready to understand what actually creates lasting change in a woman’s life, beyond the read.

Did you read The Secret? Do you remember that book?

And more importantly…did it change your life?

In this episode, I share the story of what happened when I read that book and how it cracked open a question I have been seeking the answer to for years. As someone who intends to write a lot of books, this question is one I could not ignore.

My Question…

If the book is not enough, what is the recipe for changing a woman’s life?

I show you the difference between a learning journey and a living journey. I pull back the curtain on the research behind my book in progress, The Way of the Intuitive HERoine, and why the answer to real transformation is not one thing but a whole ecosystem of tools built for the long game.

This one is for the woman who is done collecting insights and ready to actually live differently and do the damn thing. In other words, to BeHER.

Episode request: Come find us on Substack at the BeHER Collective and tell Deb D what book changed your life.

The Intuitive HERoine is a global community of women who are ready to reclaim intuitive wisdom, remember who the f*ck they are, and return to HERoine status in their story, life, and leadership. There is a spot saved for you. Join us.

Nobody wants to hear that it’s going to take a year. But here is what personal growth for women who are in the middle of a real transformation actually looks like: it takes the time it takes, and the women who stop racing toward the destination and settle into the journey are the ones who actually get there.

This episode starts in the dust and heat of post-civil war Sri Lanka, five months after Sage’s death, on the phone with my mother and her wisdom of timing, and when she told me what I did not want to hear.

Thank the goddesses I listened. Even though I didn’t want to.

This episode is about timing, transformation, and it is the marker for the first full year of the BeHER Collective.

Tune in to hear how the year it takes is evident everywhere, in nature, the moon, and the astrological calendar. They all point to the same truth about transformation.

Tune in to hear what I have learned about women, intuitive wisdom, and choosing yourself, over the first year of The BeHER Collective.

This one is for the woman who is somewhere inside a big change and wondering why it is not done yet.

Join the collective on Substack, where the next chapter of this journey is unfolding right now.

NOW! July 10th is our birth-date and we are celebrating all month long

To mark the moment, I am offering intuitive card readings and, for the first time, personalized channeling with Sage and The Blue Family.

One Year Celebration Special Offer ~ 50 % OFF Readings for July

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COMING UP

New Moon Circle ~ Cancer Moon

LIVE on Substack

Monday, 13th of July at 7 pm EST

Hot Tip! Click interested and add the circle to your calendar.

You are walking along, living your best life, when, out of nowhere, your intuition drops in with something you absolutely did not ask for or expect.

Stop doing that, that thing you don’t want to let go of, the thing that feels safe.

That is not your intuition getting it wrong. That is your intuition telling you it is time to reclaim your power and step into a bigger version of you. This is the identity navigation turning on!

This is the moment you want to trust your intuition even when it makes zero sense.

In this episode, I take you back to 2024 and a moment on the beach that knocked over the first domino in an identity shift I did not see coming. I break down the real reason intuition disrupts what is working, what the seven building blocks of identity transformation actually look like, and how curiosity and creativity turned a confusing navigation into something she could not have planned with strategy alone.

This one is for the woman who can feel herself itching for more but is still holding on tight to what is safe and familiar.

JULY 2026! First Anniversary of The BeHER Collective Special

Intuitive Readings with Deb D + personalized channeling with Sage and The Blue Family. (a brand new offer and one that sparkles with intense potential)

75-minute reading. Live and Recorded on Zoom.

Normally $444. July ONLY! 50% OFF.

Book your intuitive channeled session for $222

Use Code 222BONUS at checkout.

Living an intuitively inspired life does not mean you always get a clear path forward the moment your intuition speaks. Sometimes the direction is obvious and everything in your life is pointing the other way. That is the moment most women either leap without a safety net or quietly pretend they did not hear it. This episode is about what to do instead, and it sits right at the heart of what it means to trust your intuition as a woman.

Deb D takes you into a real story from January of this year: a winter solstice ritual, a piece of paper with two words on it, and a life already pointed in a completely different direction. What unfolded over the next six months is not the story you would expect, and what she discovered in the middle of the creative chaos is the part that changes how you think about intuitive navigation entirely.

This one is for the woman who can feel the pull of where she is meant to go but cannot figure out how to get there from where she is standing right now.

If that is you, join us on Substack. That is where the real work is happening as we figure this out together.

Join the BeHER Collective and Deb D on Substack

https://substack.com/@thebehercollective

NAVIGATION: intuition for women, women’s intuition, how to trust your intuition, reclaiming your power, heroine archetype, women’s empowerment podcast, intuitive wisdom, women’s leadership, new era for women, intuitive guided life

This one goes deep and gets personal. Deb D shares a story from her own childhood, the year she was three going on four, and what happened in her body the moment she shut her intuition down. Then she brings in a new lens from Sage and the Blue Family, and the teaching they’ve been sharing changes everything about how we see what intuition even is. If you’ve been reaching for the mystical and the magical and still feeling dry, this episode will land differently.

This is for the woman who knows she is intuitive but has been taking tiny sips when she is built to drink the whole river.

If that is you, share this episode with a woman in your world who is ready to get fully hydrated and step into her leadership from that place.

Reclaim. Remember. Return.

It’s always been yours.

Big Love

Deb D

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This text is on an affirmation card that I have stuck onto my whiteboard. It reminds me to stay active in my dream and to anchor me in owning it as mine to co-create and make real.

In March, I was invited by Sarah L Kent to share my dream as part of the Dreamworks Project. Sarah is interviewing women from all walks of life, from all around the world, about their dreams – the things they longed to create in or with their life.

When Sarah invited me to share, I knew the dream that was ready for expression as it is alive in my body, my writing, my waking hours, and in my intuitive play.

My dream: to inspire and engage one million Intuitive HERoines worldwide. We are the women of the Gentle Revolution.

The invitation: share 20 minutes with me and my dream, and then choose to BeHER and become one in a million.

To support you on your journey…

The Becoming HER Private Podcast

A private podcast for the woman who’s ready to reclaim her intuition and lead her life like the heroine she is.

The things to know and the inner shifts you make to bring you back to your power, not surface-level advice, but realignment from the inside out

Start your listening journey here

The world needs more women active inside their dreams.

BeHER, the woman who dreams out loud.

Big Love,

Deb D

Connect with Sarah and The Dreamworks Project.

Special Guest Sarah shares her story of living the supposed dream of the career and life that looks good on paper, and is in fact her dream career… until it wasn’t.

Sound familiar? So many of us chase and get the dream we desire, only to realize it is no longer what we want, or it is taking too much from us.

So, what happens next? Sarah changed everything!

In her words…

“I chose to let go of some of my own dreams during my life (they never really let go of me). These include being a Vet (I'm allergic to animals. Going to Mars (born 40 years too soon). Helping to create a peaceful world – leading to service in the UK armed forces, including time in Bosnia and Kuwait (after Kuwait I resigned my commission and left the forces).I've always loved travel, and I worked as a meteorologist for decades as I loved remote, wild places - and weather forecasting took me to those locations, which led to me living in the Falkland Islands in the South Atlantic for 7 years. But over the years I realised I really wanted to help people reconnect to their vast reserves of innate wisdom.

This meant in my spare time around my job as a meteorologist I trained and practiced as a healer, a shamanic practitioner and of course as a coach - so that I can help people learn to live their lives from a place of powerful embodied alignment with what matters most to them.Four years ago, on the edge of burnout (again), I finally said full yes to my dreams.”

Sarah now lives on a narrowboat on a canal in the UK and spends her time working with women and documenting their dreams. Not the sleeping dreams, the ones in our hearts. That’s the Dreamworks Project.

In this episode, you hear the full story of Sarah from her rocket science career all the way to dreams.

I was lucky enough to be invited to share my dream in the project, and that interview is next, episode 12, Deb’s Dream.

SPECIAL GUEST

Sarah L Kent, Wild Soul Coach

Sarah is a former astrophysicist, meteorologist and winning ultra-runner. She turned her life upside down four years ago, leaving a successful career in corporate science to say yes to her own dreams. She now lives, works and writes from a beautiful off-grid narrowboat based on the inland waterways of England and Wales, accompanied by her gorgeous and extremely fluffy cat.

She’s a coach to mission driven women, helping them to live and lead from a place of powerful, embodied presence, so they can create the life and legacy they deeply long for.

In her spare time she curates the Dreamworks Project, which is devoted to inspiring and affirming the dreams and aspirations of women around the world.

She is passionate about inspiring women to question what’s possible, and to work together to create a better future – one where humanity and the greater than human world get to thrive together.

You can learn about Sarah’s work through her website:

https://www.sarahlkent.com/

Connect with Sarah on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarahlkent/

Read 100+ dreams from the Dreamworks Project:

Want to share your story on the BeHER Podcast?

Email Deb D at debra@thebehercollective.com

The Intuitive HERoine is a global community of women who are reclaiming intuitive wisdom, remembering who the f*k they are, and returning to HERoine status in their story, life, and leadership. BeHER and join us!

That tension is time.

How long is this going to take?

Why am I waiting so long?

What is this divine timing, and when the hell is that going to click in?

In this episode, I share a story about me, literally chasing what I really, really wanted, and how long it took. I also share the parts in the story where I finally help myself to get there faster.

If you want a deeper dive into how to reach Intuitive Heroine status faster, I have the guide you're looking for!

The Becoming HER Private Podcast

A private podcast for the woman who’s ready to reclaim her intuition and lead her life like the heroine she is.

The things to know and the inner shifts you make to bring you back to your power, not surface-level advice, but realignment from the inside out

Start your listening journey here

Connect with Deb

Substack: https://substack.com/@thebehercollective

Email: debra@thebehercollective.com

Change is constant and will be a part of your HERoine journey. And chapters of change are often when your status can slip, and old patterns or identities can undermine your power and authorship.

In this episode, I share a story of a major life change and how I ensured HERoine status AND authorship of this chapter.

Key Themes

* Chapters of change and personal transformation

* Maintaining heroine status during difficult times

* Using storytelling and mental framing to empower change

Takeaways

* You are the author of your life story, especially during change.

* Framing change as a portal of transformation can empower you.

* Your chapter of change is an opportunity for sacred growth and self-leadership.

If you are in a chapter of change and inspired by this episode to pick up the pen of your life and write your chapter from HERoine status, I would love to hear it or read it. Message me on Substack, let’s connect and share stories!

The Intuitive HERoine is a community of women choosing themselves, reclaiming intuitive wisdom, and returning to our birthright status as the HERoine of our story, life, and leadership. You are invited to join us.

In episode 7, we are joined by Sage and the Blue Family, and I share my experience of surrendering to become their intuitive channel.

This story spans 13 years and hits its crescendo two days before I push record. What happened when I channeled Sage and the Blue Family LIVE for the first time?

Tune in to find out....

And if curiosity is knocking, check out two key takeaways below.

Takeaways

* Intuitive wisdom is a source of empowerment for women, allowing them to embrace their leadership from within.

* Women are encouraged to step into their leadership and be unapologetically themselves, embracing their unique qualities and abilities.

Once you have listened, please let me know…

What questions do you have for Sage and The Blue Family?!

Jessica Robinson is dedicated to creating a consciously secure world, grounded in the feminine.

Imagine now, 2012… who was thinking about cybersecurity, our security, and the lens of the divine feminine? Jessica, and not many others.

In this episode, Jessica shares her story of how she received her divine directive and what the directive has asked of her. Step into the journey of what it truly means to live an intuitively inspired life, and to be at service to a mission that is bigger than you, and the surrendering and action it takes to be able to lead this life.

SPECIAL GUEST

Jessica Robinson, Chief Holistic Security Officer, PurePoint International

Jessica Robinson is the world’s first Chief Holistic Security Officer and the creator of ConsciouslySecure™, a transformative and interdisciplinary approach that redefines security as a fully human experience. Her work moves beyond traditional models to position security as a lived practice of awareness, resilience, and leadership that shapes how individuals, organizations, and communities move through the world. As a PhD candidate, she weaves lived experience, client insights, and formal research to advance holistic security as a new paradigm for an increasingly interconnected and AI-driven world. Her thought leadership has been featured in major global media outlets, and she has spoken at institutions including the United Nations and The Hague.

CONNECT WITH JESSICA via LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-a-robinson-22740311/?isSelfProfile=true

Download your Holistic Security Guide: https://143362462.hs-sites-eu1.com/en/holistic-security-guide?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio

Substack: https://substack.com/@jessicarobinsoncs

In this episode, I share my journey of jumping off cliffs and into the creation of the BeHER Blueprint, the framework that supports women to navigate their inner maps, reclaim their power, and embody HERoine status.

This episode offers practical insights on how to see, free, and be your authentic self.

Cliff notes: The three phases of the BeHER Blueprint: See HER, Free HER, BeHER.

Your GREEN arrow - Navigating the BeHER Collective Multi-verse.

CHOOSE YOUR ADVENTURE

For stories, articles, LIVE new moon circles, and some Deb D teaching moments, go to:

Substack | https://substack.com/@thebehercollective

For time with Deb and women in circles of magic, guidance, and soul sister time, go to:

BeHER Community | https://thebehercollective.com/community/

For an intimate collective of women journeying through the BeHER Blueprint, go to:

BeHER Journey | MAY 2026 The BeHER Journey Special Invitation (1).pdf

For your leap in leadership, go to:

BeHER Leaders | https://thebehercollective.com/be-her-leadership/

Cheat sheet takeaways

Leaping off cliffs symbolizes growth and evolution when guided by intuition.

Creating a personal map helps navigate complex emotional and spiritual journeys.

Reclaiming your intuitive wisdom is essential for authentic self-expression.

Clearing old stories and energetic blocks is crucial for moving forward.

Identity alignment involves embodying your true self, not faking it.

Without consent or awareness, many women find themselves cast in supporting role, victim, or sidekick. This has been very convenient for the dominant narrative. In fact, it was intentional. 

Well, not any more!

It's time for us to reclaim HERoine status.

In this episode Deb shares a story of her trifecta…supporting, victim, and side kick roles wrapped up in her experience of moving to her island home of Tobago. How did she get into this mad mix, and what did she do to get out of it? The answer to that question is in the story, and it is the clues you can follow to make YOUR way to HERoine status.

Want to ask a question or share a story? Email Deb at debra@thebehercollective.com

These are the stories that change us. The stories we can identify as the ‘before and after’ chapters of our lives. They navigate us towards knowing who we are, and why we are here.

In this episode, Deb shares a catalyst story and how it has shaped who she is.

This story is the catalyst for YOU to reflect on the stories in your life that have made you who you are. You are invited to choose how these stories are told, and how they can be the very thing that sets you free.

More of Deb’s story can be found in her first book, A Series of Surrenders ~ A Memoir of Grief.

Paperback | EBook | Audiobook

In this episode, host Deb D shares why stories are central to our understanding and wiring of the world, and how we, as women, are the weavers of the new narrative.

You are invited to see yourself as one in a million, the women, who with the support of the Collective are writing, rewiring, and narrating the new narrative, the stories we tell and share in the new era.

Deb shares a story of how her intuitive superpower got twisted, and how she reclaimed its power and purpose in her life. She then invites you to do the same.

Take the Quiz!

The Intuitive HERoine Archetype Quiz

Connect with Deb

debra@thebehercollective.com

The BeHer Collective podcast, hosted by Deb D, celebrates women as the ultimate creators and heroines of their own stories. It aims to inspire and activate the intuitive heroine within women, encouraging them to trust their gut and reclaim their intuitive wisdom. The podcast is on a mission to engage 1 million intuitive heroines worldwide.

Takeaways

• Celebrating women as creators
• Inspiring intuitive heroines

Chapters

• 00:00 The Intuitive Heroine